just ignore those last posts charlotte...
((night hun ))) xx
R and D xx
Hi Charlotte
I'm sorry to hear your feeling down and struggling. Thank you for my comment on my diary it means a lot. I'm sure you will get through this bad patch and start to feeling better, it just takes time.
Have a great weekend with your little one
Nicki
Xx
Hi Charlotte, remember whenever someone immature is trying to get under your skin and make you upset the best course of action is to just ignore them. They will somehow enjoy it if you show any emotion or response at all, they crave attention like a five year old, although that's probably being harsh on five year olds. The greatest way you can upset and discourage them is to remain calm and ignore them. The saddest thing to me and I might be wrong here because I'm basing this on memory but hasn't he got a partner and a couple of kids. Dear, dear me what type of role model is this, what type of father must he be if he wasted so much of his time trying to upset others. His life must be so sad and consequently those around him, I pity those children.
Just concentrate on yourself Charlotte and the lived ones around you, he's jealous and because he'll never be able to create the loving stable environment you have, he'll attack you for it and try to undermine you.
Be strong, be proud.
Ste
Hi charlotte
Once again some moron tries to pull u down someone who knows very little bout u not took the time to read all ur diary to know how well u av done in ur recovery had to fight through thick and thin and ur still standing strong it amazes me
Flag who ever u r ur not welcome whilst posting like u r ur not helping anyone , I question u av a gambling problem and are just here to cause as much destruction has u can , either start ur own diary and let people help u if u r genuine or please leave this site alone
Charlotte is one amazing person who helps so many others whilst turning her life around , there's no way u can discredit her in any way and I assure u that is the view of every genuine member of this site
Charlotte just ignore it u av before and u can do it again always here for u
Castle2
Hey Charlotte ..
I guess im the last to catch on here with whats going on with a certain postee.
I did'nt realise until this morning that adam,(no gambling),adders and now this flag one and now betaddict are the same person...(Edited by GamCare)
I hope you are ok? and can see that for some reason you are singled out and have seen your posts in reply and i have no idea what sh is but thats not important.
You know you have a lot of support Charlotte and people who will look out for you on this forum...
I think its unfair to use an exsisting users name on the site as even though we regulars all know the difference between the supportive Flagg and this other Flag.
Its a shame newcomers on to the site may steer away from Flagg's positive motivational diary and check in threads and miss out thinking the postee is the same person..
In my opinion Charlotte you are exactly the right person to be on this site supporting as you know from first hand experience just how difficult it is to arrest this .. Your experience strength and hope keep people motivated and if they themselves have bad days you know what its like and can offer advice straight from the heart...
All here for you .....keep posting ..(((((((C & M))))))
R and D xx
pps....you ARE an inspiration lovely xx
hi charlotte
I hope you are ok, I too have a while getting abuse from Adam,no g or whatever he likes to be called these days, I done the right thing and blocked him on here and on email,I know you don't like conflict but you don't need or deserve to be treated in this way.
Your are an amazing young lady with your whole life ahead of you with a fantastic little family and a deffo valued member of this site try to ignore the childness and concentrate on what matters you,your family and your rollercoaster journey
carl
Thanks all, u r all gr8 ppl 🙂
It upsets me 2 say this cus I have never had a bad word 2 say about Gamcare... I think this site is gr8!
However, I have tried 2 get these offending posts removed this morning on the netline. I have been told that I have 2 email and this will be looked at on Monday. I have sent an email.... But I am feeling really annoyed by this and this is unlike me..... I don't want ne of this 2 effect my jouney... I have 2 protect myself!
I hope this person can be blocked here completely!
Steve is rite wot he posted on my diary.... This person clearly wants attention!
I am done with all this childish behaviour, this is not wot I signed up 4 and it def does not help me or my attempt 2 stay gamble free!
I am so annoyed!
Sticks and stones char! Dont let anybody affect your recovery only you have that power. This person is obviously very sad and has nothing better to do. Concentrate on you and only you . Rise above it. Xxx
hey Charlotte i don't post much on peoples diary but really wanted to make sure your ok with whats been happening lately .pls don't let it get you down or affect your recovery ! it seems Adam has some kind of weird obsession with you but you must ignore him and hopfully he'll go away . i must say though that Adam if you read this im very disappointed with the way your treating Charlotte after all the help and advice she has given you its really not fair what your doing and you should leave her alone ! she's a young mum just trying to get get on with her life and do good for her daughter and im upset that you feel the need to bully her in this way ! anyway i'll leave it at that but pls Charlotte take care and concentrate on your family and your recovery because you can do this : ) X
I write this post with sadness.... I have just heard something that makes me feel unable 2 carry on this journey on this forum here!
I have asked Gamcare 2 delete my diary and this is my final post here!
I cannot thank u all enough 4 ur help and support during my time here on this forum!
I am really sad that it has come 2 this... I wish I could thank each and everyone of u on this forum 4 the help and support you have given me.... But there is so many of u I am not able 2!
U r all gr8 ppl and I wish each and every1 of u , all the best 2 carry on this journey.... U can all do this. Stay strong and take care 🙂
U r all gr8 and I will never 4get ur kindness xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Noooooooooo charl you can't go,
🙁 dont let people get you down if that's the reason your too good for them!!! You are a credit to this site
Im very sad by this post :-(((
Xxxxxxxxxx
Dont know if Im supposed to do this but im going to do it anyway.....
What you have done for this site and people here is amazing, your a wonderful person and wonderful Mum to Maddison.
The offers there to stay in touch if you want it.
Stay strong ((char))
Andrew xx
Hello Charlotte..
A rare visit to these diary's but do have the odd catch up on a few diary's and silently will on.
You've come along way Charlotte and would like to bestow upon you the grand title of TYM (Top young mah).
You're a fine asset to these diary's, dont let a sad angry fool drive you away..
Wishing you well.
Paul
char
you should not be driven away,from this site, you are doing a great job,and support so many people, every so often people do come along to try put you off your stride but treat them like the urges and ignore them.
if this is last we see of you and I hope it isn't I would like to
THANKYOU from the bottom of my heart for getting me back for a second day and assisting me to where I am today.
you are wonderful young person and I'm sure an even better mum
obviously you have to do what's best for you but its a sad day for the rest of us
take care, I wish you all the best for you and your little family and its a pleasure knowing you
carl
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