Yo Alan. ..I was also going to write some heartfelt epic post congratulating you on your two year mark. ...but like Martin I also was out on the lash last night...bit more lady like ....drinking pressecco at a friends house...so on the lash is probally a bad way of putting it....however....the end result was the same.....in fact...probably worse...I logged on here last night to post to you...but actually couldn't find you're diary !
....so...my fav old duffer...my cod father...etc etc. ...it goes without saying that I'm made up for you. ..and this place wouldn't be the same without you....you've not just got to two years gamble free...you've helped me...and many others along our way embrace recovery and regain our lives as well....topman
Ps...message from the chap with no fixed anode...
"Please pass on my congratulations to Alan on the two years...I can't...I'm banned "
So there you go my booty...
Big big congratultions from me and deanoooooo...
'll leave the drinks and cake to Martin. ...when he's sober 🙂
Mwahhhh x
Congrats on reaching 2 years gf Alan, a great achievement indeed....... keep up the good work you are a great help to many people on here
Nice one Alan
Alan.
Fella I am not one to measure recovery or rediscovery's success through how many days a person has abstained but I measure it on the change in their life.
You are truly a shining example of what the gift of abstinence offers.you have taken it and made change upon change.
For it be very proud, keep making the right choice for you and yours.
With regards to leaving the forum, my stance is simple, if it ain't broken then it doesn't need fixing.
I learnt that lesson the hard way myself.
I salute you,with strength and honour.
Maybe we will get to meet upon the place with the best view one day and have a chance to marvel at how amazing life can be.
Abstain and maintain
Duncs stepping forward never back.
Afternoon all and thank you all so much for the kind word's on my diary :))
@ MGR , Thank you so much for your word's it means so much coming from yourself who's the one affected by what we CG's do.
@ Stephen , again my heartfelt thanks for all of your support not only to myself but around the forum , it's greatly appreciated by many :)).
@ Amom , Cathy as with my comment to MGR , it's so kind that you spend so much of your time giving help and advice not just on the f and f section which has affected you deeply but also to the Cg's who create the mess that affects you , many many thanks for all of your wise insightfull input on the forum xx
@ Oldham , aka KTF but alway's Martin to me :)) , weve travelled many miles together in the last couple of years and shared many post's also in that time . Youv'e alawys been an absolute gentleman on ( not sure about real life ) but hey :)) , thank you for pulling me up when I've needed it , sharing the good and not so good times and for being that " Star wars " voice in my ear saying " Alan , this is your father speaking " when I needed a clip around the ear for overstepping the mark :))
Looking forward to giving you a glowing report yourself in a couple of weeks but I'll make sure I haven't been on the lash with that Loxxie bird !! :)) Cheers Dad X
@ Mixer , Thank you my new friend for your kind comment's , you have an appropriate name as youv'e certainly Mixed things up on the forum since arriving but in my opinion that's a good thing . Thank you for all the support youv'e given on this site and for the many hours you devote to the cause . All the best and keep doing what works :))
@ Loxxie :)) Hello luveeeeeeeeeerly xx p*s.sed on Pressecco eh ? I alway's imagined you as a Cider and Lambrini kinda girl but I guess it all ends in the same result :)) So did Martin have alock in then ? LoL ! .
Thank you my darling for all the lovely words , I'll never forget " Mr Cod " , " Mr Fish " and my personal favourite " Old Duffer " you certainly know how to win a bloke over :)) , Seriously your support along the way has been brilliant and as you know I've always had a big smie at your post's which have kept me positive every single time I read them . Pass on my love and appreciation to the " Banned Gam Man " big D , I miss him on here and think it's about time he lodged an appeal or petiton to have him reinstated , also I'll send him my congrats on his first year , well done buddy Daddy new you'd do it :)) I'll speak with you soon Lox but until then , Love and kisses to you and your's xx
@Chartom . Thank you my friend for all the kind word's and I appreciate it a lot , look forward to speaking with you again soon :))
@ Bal , hey buddy nice to hear from you again and thank's for the post :)) , I hope everything's good in your world and your staying well away from the " Deep fried Mars bars " :)) Talk to you soon .
@ Duncan , as always your words of wisdom jump out from the page , your right about the whole time or change idea , I guess as were in this for life the time really doesn't matter as it's as long as were here for but the changes' can be immediate and immeasurable and I really get that , I do however still get a little buzz watching another year slip by and realising the distance I've put between myself and that last bet .
Your also correct regarding leaving the forum , it's a place of safety for me where I'm able to speak with other likeminded folk when the need arises and as you so rightly put it " If it ain't broke don't try and fix it " .
That's a great view you mention and shows our city in a different light I believe and I'm sure one day we'll Chew over life and aburger at the same time :)) .
Thank you Dunc's and my best wishes to you and your's .
I apologise for thanking you all on the same post but I will get around to speaking with everyone individually at some point but if I done that this morning I would have been coming up to another year gamble free !
Thank's and love to all
Alan x
Happy Birthday Pops 🙂 I wasn't gonna rock up to the party before the cake had arrived but I don't wanna miss it completely...Must have been some bender Martin was on last night if he's not sorted out the catering yet :-0
Nice post.
Well done Alan d:-)
Great stuff Alan. A fine acheivement. Well done Sir
Alan!!!!
Well done on 2yrs G free man!
Keep up the good work & reap the benefits this freedon offers 😉
Nice one for sure!
B&S xx
ALANNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!
What have you done?!
Oooohhh...I don't think much of that decision.
Seriously though, we've been through a lot of posts together, I won't let this come between us; the last thing I would want is you feeling like my unceremonious uprooting was in anyway your fault Alan (it definitely was d:-D).
I've been mature about it, accepted my upheaval, took it on the chin and have been to my local college to enrol in their Website Hacking for Beginners course.
Starts Wednesday.
Expect to login to the GamCare and find your diary has mysteriously been moved to the 'feedback' section someday soon Alan d;-)
2 years GF! You're just showing off now 😉
Well done compadre!
Congratulations on the milestone and wish you an easy continuing journey.
CW
I missed your deadline but many congratulations, long may you lead the way as an inspiration
best wishes
SJB , IMM , CW and CG :))
Many thanks guy's for all of your kind well wishes , your support as alway's is greatly appreciated :))
Massive congrats on the two years Alan. And thanks for the continued support. Stick it to the man or in this case the scummy bookies...
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