Hi I’m new here I have had a problem with gambling specifically slots for the past 2 years now it’s progressively gotten worse I have just today confided in my partner he was really understanding but I have an overwhelming feeling of guilt and shame but I’m also struggling with the urge I hope to be able to stick to this
Hello and welcome to the start of your journey. Guilt and shame are the gamblers go to emotions. The amount of times I woke up feeling like this, knowing I'd lost all my money and would have to be creative with my life for the next month. It's what we do. We don't set out to hurt our partners but the addiction takes over. Don't worry, you can repair this and discover new emotions, like happiness and proudness. I'm 135 days g/f and I'm proud of that. I'm also proud and happy that I have money at the end of the month that I've not gambled. I'm more honest now, and generally a better person.
It's great you have a supportive partner. Please consider giving them all your finances. If you don't have access to money, you cant gamble. There is also lots of help available for you, and your partner on here. Read everything and take all the advice. Put blocks in place and in no time, you'll be reaping the rewards.
Good luck, and stay strong 👍Â
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