Hello,
so all started two years ago when I made xx with crypto I was on dr*gs all the time and I got a bad trip so k was tripping from everyone I got medicines and I started to recover a little bit. With my bad trip I lost all my money and borrowed money from the bank and lost it al.Â
the last year I was quiet I worked 70 hours a week so I was able to save xx I invested them in crypto again everything was ok till I started trading leverage again I lost them all last month. After that My parents helped and gave me money my sister gave me money to pay my rent and live. I lost everything again another xx and still didn’t pay my rent. Now I’m 0 dollars ashamed because if my mum or dad will hear that they will probably have a heart attack. I went to a psychiatrist but didn’t listen to anything it’s kind of my gambling addiction is so hard the last xx I lost them in roulette I don’t know how I ended up there. I feel I have no more solutions in my life. Completely 0 I have no ways to get out of this I don’t even work. I am partner in a restaurant and I feel even the restaurant will go bankruptcy because of my mindset can’t even work anymore or do the 1/10’of what I was doing m. If we don’t have enough money i Am not getting paid so have no money at all.
im really at big loss idk how I ended up here but do you guys have any suggestions how can I do or what can I do ?
Yes i have a great solution for you what to do
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STOP GAMBLING !!!!AND PUT YOURSELF TOGETHER!!!!
Remember it will get easier with time if you stop. It's not too late. At first it will feel like hell and you will want to feed the addiction. But overtime your brain chemistry will go back to normal and you will start enjoying the simple things again and in time your pain will heal. There is no more to gain, that's the problem. Whatever you gain will just be lost again, it isn't about winning anymore it's about the addiction. It's a crazy thing and people who haven't been through it probably don't understand how you can go through so much. It doesn't feel real it's a crazy experience.Â
I feel your pain. I am struggling as well and just stumbled across this site. I'm not sure about you, but I have this sick idea that gambling will help to catch me up (big lie). You have to get, and I need to get that out of my head. The odds are just not there. This creates more debt and more disappointment. I have consistently been spending my entire paycheck for months now. It is progressive just like alcohol which was something I never used to understand. Losing a few hundred dollars or half of the money has gone to upping the stakes and getting used to all of it. The financial and food support will go away as is mine and it's just complete hell. The employer is also aware and im sure they feel like not giving it to me because it is a true waste. Maybe we can help eachother. I cannot discuss this with my girlfriend because she is so sick of it and she's leaving the end of the month.Â
Hi, just a thought from me, for what it is worth.
You need to start taking responsibility for your actions, everything else seems to be responsible for you losing your cash, it never seems to be your actions.
Unless you take ownership of what is going wrong, nothing will change. If you want to see a change, be that change.
@wbr9jcpn3y completely agree. You can stop. You have got to pull yourself together. Feeling sorry for yourself is okay but what use is it going to achieve. Tell someone get help and go to a meeting.
Many of gamblers come here on this forum because they feel sorry for themselves when they lose all their money.
Once they get paid you don't hear from them again.Until their pockets are empty.
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