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Merry go round RE: So lost  

By Merry go round, 3 weeks ago

Family & Friends
  Hi lawdie practically he can talk to stepchange they will advise how to move forward financially. He can find a GA meeting. He can talk to gamcare. There is no running away, he needs to face and take...
Back again  

By sam, 3 weeks ago

New Members Intros Forum
  Hello everyone. Ive a gambling addiction. I'm new to posting anything like this and don't really know what to say so im just going to type and see what happens. I started gambling at the age of 15 on ...
RE: My diary 14hrs gamble free  

By Littlemartin, 3 weeks ago

Recovery Diaries
  I'm back again..... I've been continuing to put in a massive amount of work/investment into my recovery. I've really discovered the true extent of my problems over the last 9 weeks. In the past I've s...
So lost  

By Lawdie, 3 weeks ago

Family & Friends
  Hi, I’ve just found out my husband has a gambling problem after 15 years. I feel so lost. He has gambled 200k in the past 3yrs and I knew nothing about it. He has lost his job and we have a massive mo...
RE: April Fools!  

By Pink Lady, 3 weeks ago

Recovery Diaries
  Day 263. My last day in work yesterday until 2nd January!🎄👌. I am so ready for this break. So much so, I am still sitting in my bed since I woke up this morning! I have had a few sleep...
RE: diary of a blind gamber  

By pisces0387, 3 weeks ago

Recovery Diaries
  I have now turned myself into someone that people no longer trust, and that's really hard to take. I know it's my own fault, but it doesn't make it hurt any less
RE: Could not open up about financials  

By dustymop, 3 weeks ago

Family & Friends
  @aoxbg6d3ji Hi Roxy, thanks for replying. I think what hurt the most was the total shut down and refusal to discuss it. I know I might not have got absolutely everything in one full conversation but t...
RE: Could not open up about financials  

By dustymop, 3 weeks ago

Family & Friends
  @pep1952 thank you for replying. I think you might be right and she isn't in a place to want full recovery. I can't do anything about that sadly. Glad that your husband is well into recovery and you...
RE: Don’t know what to think  

By Pep1952, 3 weeks ago

Family & Friends
  @LC2024 Sorry to hear about this. I adapted the Russian proverb as a partner of a compulsive gambler: trust but verify. I simply will not take their word for it when it comes to finances, and this wil...
RE: Could not open up about financials  

By Roxy247, 3 weeks ago

Family & Friends
  Hi From my perspective I told my partner fairly soon that I thought I had a problem and needed to stop, but I was so completely ashamed of the fact that I had wasted such a lot of money that I did not...
RE: Could not open up about financials  

By Pep1952, 3 weeks ago

Family & Friends
  @dustymop Sorry you’re going through this. It’s tough. Almost five years ago my now husband confessed everything although I think given a choice he probably would have tried not to. His dad reached ou...
RE: Could not open up about financials  

By dustymop, 3 weeks ago

Family & Friends
  @happierfuture thank you for replying- very much appreciated. It does help to get some clarity from someone who understands this better from the other side. I wish you well in recovery.
RE: Could not open up about financials  

By HappierFuture, 3 weeks ago

Family & Friends
  Hey there, Sounds like a super horrible situation for you and I'm sorry you're going through it. Especially as you sound like someone who's really trying to understand and who's given second chances e...
Could not open up about financials  

By dustymop, 3 weeks ago

Family & Friends
  Hi, Not exactly sure why I am here as I have asked my cg to leave. I think it's just to get some perspective or anyone that might have experienced the same. I won't recount the 6 year relationship; I'...
PeerSupportTeam Day 10  

By PeerSupportTeam, 3 weeks ago

12 Days of Festive Support
  Did you know your lived experience could help others? Becoming a Peer Support Volunteer is a way to give back and support others in recovery. All the support is over email, on our forum or chatroom, ...
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