B*****k's to Gambling! JP.x

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Hey all,lovely people. You are so wonderful. I thought I would pop back to say Hi to all you wonderful supporters. I watched a gambling program over on BBC this and last week and remembered all you crazy lot so thought I'd pop by and say life is peachy. I havent been posting as I said away is away. I needed that but know I would and will never ever get in the same position I was in before. Will explain how i did it soon as it may help some others.

Been a few years, a few years of progression and self esteem I tell you. What a difference but I had to take hard measures. Once there through you will never go back. Couldnt have done it without my family though so big respect there.

Will get back and speak with you all soon. There was a couple of slips, nothing major. I guess when a smoker stops smoking, some may slip, I did but got back on the wagon the next day. To anybody keep it strong and as Duncs says. Always forward.

Pete.xx

Pete.the fella who inspired my life.the first to post a picture of themselves,to show the world what compulsive gambling turns us into.I often wondered how you have been my dear friend,you made an offer on Rachel's thread, one which showed such humility and then you were gone,I thought of emailing many times as your post to her contained your email address.I didn't I knew you had good reason to go. I am still in hot pursuit of harmony,recovery has thrown up some amazing things,I have even been privileged to meet some of the amazing folk from here in 3d!!!!! So glad you popped by to share with us. That gamble free bus still runs and as always there is a seat for your good self. Fella you have made my day.abstain and maintain.

​Duncs stepping forward never back

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pete

I started reading your account last night, after an hour I was still reading. Inspiration was found from reading some of the great responses. A lot of ups and a lot of downs but your are 100x further on thanks to no gambling. I am just starting my journey and its clear that is doesn’t happen over night, nor do the demons leave you forever.

I am going to keep an eye in here and hope you continue going forward with no steps back

Hey,

Dunc's good to be back fine Sir. And good to be on top of the world. Although been on top of this means lots of work to keep yourself Occupied, so I am now decorating over the next 3-4 days. <-- Not looking forward as first time for me! Got the paints and tools in thanks to a family friend, few beers down the local afterwards. Ready to rock and roll as they say (Not!)

Underdog, take your time. It does not happen overnight. The Gambling does though. The mindset tales a bit of time to heal and prepare itself for reality that is for sure. But it's a good feeling. You Have done the hard part, so get with it. Join us. Be one of us. I welcome you.

JP.x

Hi JP/sparky777

I knew my eyes doesn't lie lol and definitely admire your honesty. Good to see you marching on and living recovery one day at a time!

Yes, our Rachel is well and sound behind forum walls and that post was from her which i only copied and pasted 🙂
Where are picks of your coats purchases? You must have a new wardrobe by now with not gambling 😉

Take care and keep on keeping on!

Sandra x

Ps. Apology accepted 🙂

I have to get my bearing's again folks, sorry been so long. Dunc, Rach, Blondie, Scamps, S.A, and others (sorry if i didnt list you) have all been a part in my recovery. It is a day by day process, and without your help I dont think I would have made it. When I posted earlier that I wouldnt have made it without my Family. That's you folk's. You are my extended family, and I love you all.

Anyway, my dad passed away recently so that killed me. (It's OK been a few months now but just thought I have to let you know whats going on in my life). I want to make what's left of my life the best it can be. And gambling will not bring that. So.

No.

JP.xx

Hi JunglePete, you'll have to excuse my less than warm welcome but you have thrown me a little. I have answered your question (assuming it was one & not something cryptic that I have missed) & I look forward to hearing the promised way in which you have managed your recovery.

I am very sorry to hear about your father though & it's great to hear that you intend to move forwards making the most of your life! You can do it - ODAAT

Shiza.