Ps. Another idea...
Can you get 25k added onto your mortgage offer? Or a loan over the maximum term?
X
Paul
Fella reading your post this morning was like rolling the clock back three weeks my friend.
I am glad you found the courage to post your feelings and hope it will shed a sensible light on the proceedings.
As I know only too well the consequences of trying to make a quick fix!!
More sh##it my friend the result of my trying to fix a problem all be smaller through gambling.
Why
I cannot win because I cannot stop.
What made me laugh is my beloved football club ripped them off to the tune of 150 million and to my knowledge nobody is being pursued!!!!
Life is cruel my friend, I will leave you with this something that bounces around my brain left from a dearly departed friend from GA
'I have been coming to these rooms for 25 years in the hope someone will come through the doors and ask for help to stop winning!!!!!'
You did win because you did stop.
Duncs stepping forward never back.
Hi.. some great practical and recovery thoughts from others. Focus on getting that agreement with the tax man. Once that's in place then stress levels can return to normal levels. Stay focussed in your resolve not to gamble. Regards... S.A 🙂
The worst part is now... the not knowing how it'll work out. You'd probably relieve a lot of anxiety if you take the sound advice given here. Deal with it as soon as you can. Best to ya!
V ...Where have you gone ?
Bit worrying you are not responding to mail and posts?
What's going on?
X
Hey V,
Hope all is good..leaving ladies on their own again ey? 🙂 Drop a line when you can, worried about you
S x
Ditto Sandra ....
Please don't isolate ...xx
Hey V
Can your fan base have a wave please ...thinking some folks on here may want to know you are ok? ..no pressure or 'owt...like today would be good!!!
Lol xx
am still your biggest PITA...( Pain In The a**e)
Hey V.......Tick tock tick tock........ still waiting soldier.
Please be kind to yourself and don't isolate..
I believe in you..are you?
S x
I had a poster of this on my wall in my room when I was a teenager. I still love it.... esp the line at 1:10... "For always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself..."
As Duncan says... be good to yourself. It's the only way. Feed that in your spirit what you want to grow. Sending healing vibes and strength across the pond (hopefully with gps precision to penetrate that pure soul of yours!)...
Hope all is good with ya and working things out with them taxes. Taxes suck all over the world and here in the U.S. It's just kinda like this.
TY so much, really need to get my S***e together and return this support.
Diary...Same old, same old - no gambling but miss it, drink minimal yet doob still keeping me under water. So need to get out of this environment, just need some patience!!
Payment plan sorted with the tax beast. Multi tasking at work and not getting any where, need to get head clear and calmer.
No living just existence, need to exist some where else. So the upshot is its all ok apart from whats bad.....
Hey V
Keep connected and keep sharing those thoughts without isolation..
You can always use admin forum as a middle man to request and swap private emails...it's good to keep talking xx
R and D. Xx
The honourable Paul
fella just to know that things are happening.
That most of all you are ok
That for me is gift enough
You look out for Number 1 my friend.
duncs
With strength and honour.
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