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 Boro
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Day 48. Still feeling a bit sick but no gambling or even consided it for a long time now. Its a long time since i have gone 7 weeks without any kind of gambling at all

 
Posted : 16th August 2012 5:33 pm
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Hi Mate,

Wow.......look at you!

Won't be long till you are taking the kiddos on holiday eh?

Your doing brill!

Thanks for the post on mine..........I told 'em....lol

Sue x

 
Posted : 16th August 2012 6:25 pm
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You would have felt even sicker had you been in the process of a gambling spree.

The sickness will pass.

And 48 days is brilliant, not long until 50!

NT

 
Posted : 16th August 2012 6:54 pm
 Boro
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Very good point they NT. 49 days.Feeling not to bad today.

 
Posted : 17th August 2012 5:34 pm
 Boro
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50th day. No gambling whatsoever 🙂

 
Posted : 18th August 2012 7:06 pm
 Boro
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Day 51. So angry just went to pick me daughter up from x girlfriends and she started on me in front of kids. Saying who paying child support this week because you been gambling. I have not gambled for 51 days and i have no intention of gambling ever again. I just walked away with kids while she was shouting so i told her to shut up then she called kids back and took them in house so i aint got kids today so angry. They just no need for this.

 
Posted : 19th August 2012 10:37 am
 Boro
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day52. onwards and upwards

 
Posted : 20th August 2012 5:11 pm
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Hi Boro,

Don't know what to say mate...just read post about ex and kids!

Thing is...you know the truth......This could send someone back into the evil world.....Not you Boro.....Stand 10 foot tall....You havn't gambled...no intention!

Have you got a friend who could talk to your ex?

Think time for some intervention eh?

Good luck mate!

Sue x

 
Posted : 20th August 2012 5:19 pm
 Boro
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I just dont no what to do for the best sue. Nothing will send me back to gambling. I have come so far with being 52 days gamble free. Could never face going back to day 1 now

 
Posted : 20th August 2012 6:25 pm
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Ya know mate I know that........Maybe it's time for you to seek some legal help. You are the dad...you have rights!

I am a woman and I never ever stopped my ex from seeing his daughter......that is just so wrong.

Have you not got anyone close (family) who could intervine?

You really are going so well....dont want anything to come between that!

Am rooting for you Buddy.

Sue x

 
Posted : 20th August 2012 6:36 pm
 Boro
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53 day. Feeling sick because all i can think about is not seeing my daughter. Things are going to turn nasty i think. I took these two weeks off to have her more. This is all down to gambling. But she should not stop me from seeing my daughter. They no reason for her to suffer.

She not a reasonable women sue going to have to leave it for a few weeks and see what happens

 
Posted : 21st August 2012 12:08 pm
 Boro
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54 day. Nearly 8 weeks gamble free

 
Posted : 22nd August 2012 8:47 am
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Day 54,

Well done Boro.....despite all that has been thrown at you still remaining gamble free.........Brilliant job!

I know that you so desperatly want to see your daughter. Is it just 1 you have....heard you mention 2 at times..is that step child?

Is she at an age that you could write to her/ has a mobile/ family member to pass messages?

It's so cruel for a parent to take things out on the child.....Believe me I know mate.......my ex husband took my daughter away from me. I really can understand your pain.

Sue xx

 
Posted : 22nd August 2012 1:58 pm
 Boro
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I have talked to her on phone this morning she agreed i can have them tomorrow. Just told her dont want to argue with her. She still blaming me for everything but at least i get to see me daughter and step son.

Yes sue i have a daughter and a step son who thinks im his dad

 
Posted : 22nd August 2012 3:17 pm
 Boro
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55 days. Had a really nice day with the kids. The x still has a go but just try and ignore her

 
Posted : 23rd August 2012 6:05 pm
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