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just wanted to say happy new year sweetie.....hope 2013 is a good year for you......hugs xx

 
Posted : 2nd January 2013 12:19 am
castle2
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Hi charlotte

Happy new year

Here's a toast to the year ahead lets make it a good one

Castle2

 
Posted : 2nd January 2013 9:48 pm
(@Anonymous)
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Hi C

Just a quick "happy new year" to you and your family.

Sorry had to rush off chat- urgent carbs needed!

Take care

Irene

x

 
Posted : 2nd January 2013 11:06 pm
(@Anonymous)
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Thanks all xx

I'm not going 2 get drawn in2 this 2nite...I need my sleep.... there r so many gr8 ppl here and in no way do I wanna effect their recovery... I know how hard this journey is already and stuff like this does not help ne1 who is trying 2 recover from a gambling problem!

All I will say is if ne1 thinks I have breached the rules or bullied ne1 pls email Gamcare they r always helpful and will look in2 this, If u r genuine then maybe u should do the same... email Gamcare with ur concerns pls don't effect ne1 elses recovery,ppl have already said how upsetting they find this and this is not fair on ne1!

I don't think he will mind me mentioning this the diff thread I was gonna set up was Apg's idea and just really 2 keep us both focused... I realised after it seemed like a competion with Flagg's, which is not wot I wanted we r all in this 2gether so I took it down!

I asked Flagg, if I had upset him and he confirmed I never as 4 Graham he is a very good friend of mine away from the forum, he knows the truth cus he knows me!

I know the truth and I am not willing 2 defend myself nemore!

Pls everyone lets get this site back 2 the supportive place that it always was... we all have the same aim 🙂

I will not be mentioning this again 🙂

Nite all xxxxxx

 
Posted : 3rd January 2013 1:17 am
Graham2
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Char, it is with sadness that I read footprints posts. I have no idea how you have upset me. You are my little GC Grand daughter 🙂 .

As you know , we are good buddies, Why a poster goes to these ridiculous ends to attack you is beyond my ken.

I will pass no judgements only to say, please do not get wound up by this. Lots of more important things going on.

You have a family. Far more important than stuff said on here. You are tackling the ole gambling bug.

My advice is not to get drawn into any of this silliness.

 
Posted : 3rd January 2013 1:17 am
(@Anonymous)
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Thanks G, I am not mentioning it again my last post says it all 🙂

But wot I will say is if Flagg's get 2gether goes ahead in May,which I really hope it does.. I will be there with my bf and Maddison and I will be happy 2 share a drink and toast how far we have all come on this journey!

Lets get back 2 wot really matters here, lets all support each other thru this journey!

Nite all xx

 
Posted : 3rd January 2013 1:32 am
(@Anonymous)
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Hey Char

Please try and ignore all that is being said at the moment, your already showing your strength of character by not rising to these allegations that are made without foundation.

The time and effort you put in to encourage others on their diaries should be applauded and something you should be very proud of.

Remember whats important your lovely family and your own personal recovery.

Its easy to write words on a forum without thinking of the implications that they may cause to others.

The path to recovery is sometimes bumpy and sometimes you will find obstacles in your way but with strength and determination you can achieve all that you strive for.

Stay strong

Andrew xx

 
Posted : 3rd January 2013 2:29 am
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Hey Charlotte....

Still confused.com but hoping all this gets sorted out....

I don't do the chat as you know ..

Can understand folks being P***** off with me on this site and doubting my intentions when i'm ranting... but not you.

No need to repost on this....just sayin

R and D xx

 
Posted : 3rd January 2013 2:31 am
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Thanks all xx

I am actually lost 4 words this morning.. I am unsure as 2 y ne1 would say this stuff all which is untrue!

Just wanted 2 say 4 the ppl that have never been in2 chat.. It is really supportive, it is moderated by a Gamcare advisor and they will not allow ne1 2 be bullied there, they act very quicky if they need 2 and r very supportive. I hope this does not put new mbrs off using chat it is a gr8 help 4 ne1 trying 2 stay strong!

I want 2 say a lot this morning about the untrue things that were were wrote about me.. But I know the truth... I am not going 2 defend myself nemore or get drawn in2 this! This site is 4 recovery not this and I want it 2 get back 2 this!

I may have got it wrong in the past, I am def not perfect but I have already said sorry if that was the case!

2 say I am upset and saddened by all this is a understatment..... a safe place 4 me as turned in2 somewhere intimidating..Yeh, ppl r vulnerable here in fact we all r..... I am not ashamed 2 admit that, it's y we r here... Trying 2 change our lives 4 the better! I am also sorry 2 see that others got drawn in2 this last nite and I hope from the bottom of my heart u r ok and not effected by all this!

Stay strong everyone!

 
Posted : 3rd January 2013 8:47 am
judy
 judy
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Hi Charlotte,

great post there. You have always been a steadfast supporter of my recovery thru my good moments and not so good moments. i will always remain a steadfast supporter of your recovery as well my dear. Stay strong. -joanxxx

 
Posted : 3rd January 2013 3:02 pm
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hey charlotte

i had a great new years thanks and spent some quality time with some family i dont see too often so all was good

and yes i did have a few strawberry ciders and the homemade vodka LOL

chin up girl, you keep focus on your own journey

the doc

 
Posted : 3rd January 2013 7:23 pm
(@Anonymous)
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Hi Char

Didnt get much of a chance to chat earlier! Hope things are good with you.

Keep up the great work

Irene

x

 
Posted : 4th January 2013 1:07 am
(@Anonymous)
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Hi char

Thank you for your support, it really does mean a lot. I hope you are ok and things on here are sorted. Have a good weekend, stay strong.

Nicki xx

 
Posted : 4th January 2013 8:13 am
castle2
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Morning charlotte

Not even gonna waste my breath on the recent activities ,just wanted to say and reiterate what I put on my diary , u av always supported me and I av seen u support so many others and in return people return that support and for me that is exactly what this forum is for nothing more nothing less

Ur a real credit to urself and gamcare for all the hard work u av put on ur own diary and recovery whilst helping others in their own , I hope the live gamcare still goes ahead and will be the 1st to give u a big warm hug and thank u for everything u av done

Take care

Castle2

 
Posted : 4th January 2013 11:20 am
(@freda)
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Hey Charlotte,

Docs went really well : ) Don't know how long ago your changed the title of your thread (ive been all over the place lately) but LOVE, LOVE, LOVE it!

Its frickin awesome that you are starting to gain confidence and realise your full capacity and strength.

f x

 
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