Life begins again

Suzanne,

I had a question for you the other night before you completely threw me with the competitive question. And still can't remember what it was?

So I'm going to go back to your answer on grudges and how when in your 20's, you stopped having grudges.

My question now, was there some thing quite significant change to your life in them years. Same rules apply, no dwelling and take your time to answer!

Also, agreed with where you got your positivity from ie you only got it half wrong, which means you got it half right. I like that.

Now to read your downloading post....

Hai Suzanne, a nice post.

The snakes and ladders theory wasn't mine. It really is a game to teach kids about the good and bad of life and to just keep going. Originated I think from Hinduism in the 1800's I believe. Just thought it interesting how In this time off I found my own ladders up and snakes down. It taught me alot about work and which circle to try and stay in.

You are so right about the money thing, it's so bizarre isn't it. I know money doesn't come into the healing as such but shoot where was our logic....

Hi there Suzanne, sounds like u've had a rough enough time lately, i feel ur beating urself up, but you have to remember how bloody well you've done by abstaining for such a long period of time. We cant change our past, but we can change our future, and ur def on the correct path. Look after urself x

Hello old friend (well, not old but you know what I mean!). I mentioned you in a post earlier expressing my gratitude for your unconditional support and then I realised that I probably haven't thanked you directly....so dropping by to say "thanks".

Good post above. I love your honesty. It's not all a bed of roses but you're dealing with the stuff that life's throwing at you without leaning on the crutch of Mr.G. He's no match for you 🙂 I'm glad that you recognise that you still have thoughts about it... would like to chill out with a tenner online...knowing that, recognising and acknowledging that helps to keep you safe.

Here's hoping that February brings some better things your way ( a house buyer would be nice!). But even if it doesn't I know you're strong enough to deal with it.

LB x

Just re-read my post. I didn't mean you were leaning on Mr.G's actual crutch :):) Now there's an image!

LB x

Good reply Suzanne. Another thing making sense in this noggin.

Another question for you, but this time I know the answer.

Since you came here 600 or so days ago, do you find yourself tapping your thoughts at your pc screen, rather than thinking what to say?

Also on the job front. As Alan seems to like you, can you ask him to reconsider my application?

Hi Suzanne , sorry that you're being pestered by Paul , lovely bloke but just won't take no for an answer , hope you've had a good day ? X

Yeah ! I'm def not all there at the mo am I !!! Thanks Suzanne x

" never did think before I spoke "

Do you know what Suzanne, if we all had that quality, there wouldn't be so many confused people in this world. It's a release we all wish for, but i bet inadvertently you do indeed think before you speak and thats where the honesty and positivity shines through.

Slowly, slowly im learning that...

Still on the same tangent here Suzanne...

' never did think before I spoke, it just flows out of me '

Was reading that we are the only primate who communicates with the white of our eyes. So with the rolling of the eyes, facial expressions, arm crossing etc etc. We communicate with everything, we don't need to speak or write, we are better communicating with all our being. Some of us though have just forgotten that, so time for me to go back in time to being a cave man......

Have a good weekend...

Hi Suzanne, your doing really well!! I can't wait to get to your level!! Keep it up

Go girl 650 days is superb, hope life is treating you well.
Cheryl xxxx

brutus123C wrote: Go girl 650 days is superb, hope life is treating you well. Cheryl xxxx

congrats Suzanne from your no.2 stalker :). keep up the encouragement and honesty. thanks tri

Wow...your doing so well...big pat on the back from me...and nassive thanks fir all the support you give x

Well done Suzanne keep doing what your doing.

KTF