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 Kaym07
(@kaym07)
Posts: 29
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Hi All, 

So I'm pretty new to this forum, only been here just under a couple of weeks but I wanted to keep a little diary of my story. Reading other peoples progress and diaries as really made me motivated and pushed me to sort my life out. So a massive well done to everyone who is on here and making progress with such a supportive community. 

You are really helping people and I'm hoping I can do the same to other people. 

I've suffered with a gambling problem for a couple of years and I nearly lost everyone. I got my self In to a little bit of debt and always denied I had a problem. It calmed down and I managed to pay everything back I owed but then I went down a slippery slope where I was going from spending 200-600 in a couple of days. It was heartbreaking. 

I finally admitted to my family and my partner who are very supportive, I didnt expect that and was scared to open up. I listened and finally realised I needed help with my problem. 

I called Gamcare, the person I spoke with was very nice and supportive, I finally felt some weight had been lifted. I then started my counselling sessions. The woman is very nice, I was so scared to begin with. 

This point I had my card froze for gambling transactions and Gamban. I managed 24 days GF. I felt amazing, so proud. 

I then had a downfall, no idea what I was thinking at the time because the gambling was still pretty fresh in my head and all I could think is I just want to gamble. I had lost so much money and i though maybe because i havent been on the site for a while, I may get lucky. Wasn't correct! 

I spoke with my counsellor, and all i did was cry, was so emotional. I felt like I'd let my self down completely and ashamed. I was ashamed to come back on the forum after admitting I had gone my first 24 days. My counsellor told me to get straight back on, as this was best time to speak with other people. 

I then signed up to 5 years of GAMSTOP and it feels great. I recieved emails through saying accounts had been closed etc and even more weight had lifted. 

I will always feel ashamed of what I've done and how much money I lost due to these sites but the start of my recovery journey and the start of making a better life for myself. 

Hit my first week again of GF! 

Just also like to thank everyone who has shared stories, it's really motivated me to become a better person and how supportive this group is. 

 

Kay ?

This topic was modified 4 years ago 3 times by Kaym07
 
Posted : 22nd November 2020 11:22 am
 Juney
(@chezzy)
Posts: 72
 

Hi kay

Whish ing you well on your journey. 

 
Posted : 22nd November 2020 11:27 am
 Kaym07
(@kaym07)
Posts: 29
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Hi Chezzy  

Thank you for clicking on my story and thank you, really is appreciated on your comment . 

?

 
Posted : 22nd November 2020 11:52 am
slowlearner
 slowlearner
(@slowlearner)
Posts: 863
 

Hi Kay,

You may well be ashamed of the past but you should be proud of the positive steps you've taken in putting blocks in place and reaching out for support.

Best Wishes

AL

 
Posted : 22nd November 2020 12:02 pm
 Kaym07
(@kaym07)
Posts: 29
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Hi slowlearner 

Thank you for comment, I'm just so thankful to be part of this community. You're all so very kind.

I do feel a lot better than I did, even more better that I now know the past is behind and I can look forward to my recovery. 

Hope you're safe and well slow Learner 

 

Kay?

 
Posted : 22nd November 2020 12:06 pm
Aum
 Aum
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Posts: 3947
 

Dearest Kay

Just let me say

Please take it easy day by day

Treat your self with kindness for you never meant no harm

Look forward and forget the past while staying cool and calm

 

Best wishes 

From

Stephen x 

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Posted : 22nd November 2020 10:25 pm
 Kaym07
(@kaym07)
Posts: 29
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So, week 2. I've hit my 2 week GF Goal, so happy with myself so far. It's been hard but I've kept myself busy and I feel so much better about myself. Starting to sort Christmas out and buy gifts and it feels so good not wasting my money on gaming websites. 

Here's to reaching goal 3.. week 3. I can do this. 

 
Posted : 29th November 2020 6:48 pm
Forum admin
 Forum admin
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Admin
 

Hi Kay, 

Thank you for sharing your journey so far with the Forum. It sounds like you are doing a great job and congratulations on 2 weeks gamble free. 

I can see that you are seeing the benefits already by starting to buy gifts for Christmas, this is great news. 

Well done!

Rebecca 

Forum Admin

 
Posted : 29th November 2020 8:42 pm
 Kaym07
(@kaym07)
Posts: 29
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Week 3 GF 

21 days I've been Gamble free and I feel so proud and happy with my self. The temptation is finally starting to leave my mind and I havent really thought about gambling. My life is slowly starting to get back on track and I feel so much weight has been lifted. 

So Happy. 

If it wasnt for the support of you amazing members, the stops I put in place, my supportive boyfriend pushing me to get help and Gamcare support I wouldnt have got where I am at this minute. So thank you all

 

Here's to week 4! I can do this 

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Posted : 6th December 2020 10:01 am
 Charlieboy
(@charlieboy)
Posts: 1013
 

Hi Kay , yes you can !! Keep guard up blocks in place. Be completely transparent about how you are feeling talk through any issues, keeping secrets feeds our addiction. You're doing good, stay strong and reap the benefits of being gamble free

 
Posted : 6th December 2020 10:38 am
 Kaym07
(@kaym07)
Posts: 29
Topic starter
 

Week 4 GF! 

I am so proud of my self. It's such an amazing feeling knowing I have got this far so far.

Here's to a brilliant christmas as I know I will have a great one this time for first time in years. 

Here's to week 5. I can 100% do this. 

 

 
Posted : 13th December 2020 1:46 pm
 Loux
(@loux)
Posts: 848
 

Amazing acheivement well done xxx

 
Posted : 13th December 2020 3:42 pm
 Kaym07
(@kaym07)
Posts: 29
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Thank you Lou xxxx 

 

 
Posted : 16th December 2020 7:49 am
 Kaym07
(@kaym07)
Posts: 29
Topic starter
 

I'm sorry, what do you mean? 

 
Posted : 16th December 2020 9:49 pm
 Kaym07
(@kaym07)
Posts: 29
Topic starter
 

I've done it! I've reached my 5 week GF!

Not thought once about, those images are going away and I'm not really thinking about it.

Only thing I can say is when I hear an ad on the radio promoting these gambling websites, make my stomach turn and makes me feel so bad from what I did 5 weeks ago, 

Hopefully this will soon go and I wont feel like this when I hear or see any ads on TV. 

As I post every Sunday, I Hope you all have a wonderful christmas and hope all the best for everyones recovery in 2021. 

 

Kay x 

 
Posted : 20th December 2020 7:21 pm
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