Thank you urgh, I absolutely agree with you and everyone else on that. Under our circumstances I just haven't found a way to do that yet,I wish I could. My saving grace is like the others have said, he doesn't get a penny that isn't accounted for, I check bank accounts daily and his credit report weekly. There is no way any of my wages will reach his pocket, nor will I accept any forward debt if he can find a way to create some I haven't thought of. If he was working or could work at the moment he would be out that door 60 hours a week if I have anything to do with it. But I do accept this isn't the norm or the best way in general.
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