Not sure where to start married 2 years we have a baby on the way my husband started gambling badly in july he now has over 8000 debt he cant even pay car insurance i only get a small amount of money and i have to keep us going he begs and crys and promises that he wont do it hes sneaking off from work to go to play slot machines i dont know what to do i have a high risk pregnancy i also have trust issues due to him cheating on me i forgave him but its always in the back of my mind i love him but i really dont know what to do for the best im feeling so lost any advice would help
To @zn29jmlqik thank you for taking the time to share your situation with us. It sounds like things are stressful for you whilst also having a high risk pregnancy also to deal with.
There is support available for you directly via GamCare treatment service for someone affected by another persons gambling you can call the helpline on 0808 802 0133 and speak with an Online Helpline Advisor that can take a referral from you.
Also the Money Guidance Scheme can help with organising your payments and a referral can be made via the Helpline Advisor. I have also included the link below to our Managing your money factsheet link.
Please speak with your G.P. or ante natal team about any health concerns which I am sure you are doing as part of your pregnancy care.
Your husband can also access 121 treatment separate to you via the Helpline Advisor if he is not already accessing support.
It may seem like there is no positive outcome but with support commitment to plans and determination positive change can happen.
Best wishes to you and your family
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Hi there. I am in no position to offer you good solid advice but please know that with all the proper counselling blocks and wage control it will be possible to get financial control back
 More importantly your health is of paramount importance it’s the mainstay of your future I will forward any more thoughts and information that can help you
Put yourself first eat well do not get overly stressed breathe deeply and keep posting here
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