I tried of lending money and the pressure put on me, think its time to leave him,
Hi Dstotyy,
Welcome to the Forum, and thanks for posting.
I am hearing that you feel underpressure to lend money to your boyfriend, as doing this has put you in debt and you are thinking about your next step.
We have a Colum for family and friends of gamblers, where you may get response from people who have been where you are before, you can also read from what others have found helpful if you would like to look at post at this colum.
I will put your post at the family and friends colum, so that you can get a response from people who visit that section as well.
Meanwhile you can call our Helpline or Netline if you want to talk to an advisor about this. We will be able to sign post you to people that you can talk to about your debt, and you can also talk through your decision with one of us, if you want.
Regards
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