Sick of husbands gambling and feel really depressed

My husband beys for a living 7 days a week 52 weeks a year, he’s now switched from matched betting - arbing to betfare swing trading.

I spend all my time alone outside work - if I rarely go out with my friend for a drink he’s texting me to come home to cook  his dinner ! Of o don’t he gets annoyed and I’ve PTSD from my childhood of a dad wife beater.

I work, I do all 

cooking every night 

cleaning

washing

food shopping 

decorating 

gardening 

diy

I pay towards bills.

ive broken my toe at work so im off and spend all day alone outside- he every day 

breakfast walk bets walk bets  1-2 days a week goes to pub with his mate 

of if I try communicate this isn’t good for him or us he says this is why he doesn’t spend time with me as I always say about it’s lonely & he should do more in the hosie ad as a couple.

He said he knows his priorities are Betting Drinking Watching sport, he said we can do things together socially as long as he can drink beer.

when I say I’m selling the house buying separately he changes is nicer for a few days then back we are to addiction man.

I know he won’t change I have to leave the marriage it’s 13.5!years together and 12 of those he’s gambled and gambled £8500 of my money he was meant to transfer to me 18 months ago.

Ibe fibromyalgia and chronic ibs it’s all really taken a toll on my mental health.