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(@colwingate)
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Hi all new here took me a lot to get here I've never been a one to talk about my problems I've always been indinial untill today I spoke to someone on phone today who was great and advised me to share here it goes I'm 36 year old gambled since I was 18 I would and still do gamble all my pay week in week out for over 20 year I have lost everything to it but I still end up doing it it's not about me wanting to win because even if I did I would just bet more I never stop till I've lost it all just wondered if any1 else does this and would like to no if this forum could possibly help me         thanks for reading hope every1 is well colin

 
Posted : 18th July 2022 3:35 pm
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Hi Colin, welcome to the forum.

Thank you for your post and for sharing your story with everyone here on the forum. I am really glad to hear you have spoken on the phone with an adviser and I just want to say well done for reaching out for some support.

 

Please do continue to post on the forum and if you ever need anything else our helpline is open 24/7.

 

Many thanks,

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Posted : 18th July 2022 3:59 pm
(@pbuxton1982)
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Hi Colin

I'm 40 years old and know exactly what your saying , no matter how big you win it will go straight back in, i remember know what i was doing but couldn't stop myself. Luckily i am now 100 days gambling free and hopefully many more to come. I hope the same will come for you also, i tell you it feels so much better having alot more free time and not looking on the phone all the time.

 
Posted : 19th July 2022 11:43 am
Scar
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Stay strong Colin, You got this

 
Posted : 20th July 2022 5:23 am
Cornishgamer
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Welcome colin.

As a gambler myself i know what your going through. A win would always go back in until its all gone. Luckily this site has helped me loads and im now 14 days gamble free so it shows that this is worth while. Your wallet will thank you later once you stop.

 

 
Posted : 20th July 2022 9:04 am
(@q86r2ugj5p)
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Hi

Thanks for your sharing.

Being able talk about how ermotionally vulnerable we are helps us come out of our self.

Being denial was very much fear based issues for me.

BY talking about thing helped reduced the pressure I put my self under.

Being a compulsive gambler wining was just going to prolong my pains and my suffering.

By being committed to the recovery program helps you exhcange unhealthy habits in to healthy habits.

The recovery program helps and helped me heal my pains ad reduce my fears.

Love and peace to everyone

Dave L

AKA Dave of Beckenham UK

 

 

 
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