Hi
My name is jen, i am an ordinary, middle class, mother of 5. Im typing this into today and wondering where the hell i went wrong and what has become of me! My friends would fall over backwards if they knew this side of me! I am so disgusted with myself. I feel like the WORST MOTHER, WIFE, DAUGHTER,SISTER IN THE WORLD. How do i change? My husband has given me a few chances already and there is no ways he will give me anymore. Please help! Any advice on how to get rid of this addiction is MASSIVELY appreicated!
Hi Jen,
Welcome to the Forum.
It’s not easy dealing with this on your own. You are suffering in silence because you are afraid of what people may think, say or do but it’s not helpful to stay isolated. In fact, keeping the problem a secret feeds it and makes it impossible for you to get help. As a first step, I would suggest that you get in touch with an advisor at GamCare who will listen and guide you, without judging you. Recovering from an addiction is a slow process and requires a lot of support. There are no quick fixes but you can slowly build-up a strategy to help you manage the problem and strenghten your relationships. I hope you take this next step and get in touch by either using the Netline or Helpline.
Best wishes,
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Hi Jen, I'm new here and your post was the first one I saw. Your message echoed my thoughts exactly 🙁 I look at my daughter and it makes me feel a thousand times worse. I am now seeking help (only as of tonight). I would be mortified if anyone found out what I've done. I really hope you get the help you deserve. Good luck to you in your road to quiting gambling for good x
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