Hi all, I'm new to the site but ready to take control of my life again. I've been gambling about 3 month but in that short time I've lost a lot of money, always chasing my losses which of course never happens. I have a very loving and supportive partner who has stuck by me, says a lot about her as a person when I've lied to her about what the money has gone on. Last night I let her down again, I hate seeing the disappointment on her face when she knows we've to struggle another month because of my actions. Today that changes for me, I ready to seek support before it gets out of hand and I lose everything. Any words of advice and support would be appreciated.
Thanks Zoe
Hiya, the money is lost move past this! after two years of gambling for me and a hell of a lot of money, I'm working on accepting this fact.
You have come to the right place before this addiction takes hold and believe me it does take hold, a week back I almost lost marriage! And very upset children because of what I'd done.
My advice to you is nip this in the bud now! As for the struggle for a month, you will feel bad because if this, you can change however change this, by never doing it again!
Go to gamstop and put a block on so you cannot gamble also, you can have a gambling block on your bank account, I've done all of these and I'm only on day 5 of no gambling it have helped a lot.
I wish you all the bestÂ
Nic x
Hi all, I'm new to the site but ready to take control of my life again. I've been gambling about 3 month but in that short time I've lost a lot of money, always chasing my losses which of course never happens. I have a very loving and supportive partner who has stuck by me, says a lot about her as a person when I've lied to her about what the money has gone on. Last night I let her down again, I hate seeing the disappointment on her face when she knows we've to struggle another month because of my actions. Today that changes for me, I ready to seek support before it gets out of hand and I lose everything. Any words of advice and support would be appreciated.
Thanks Zoe
Hi Zoe
Welcome to the GamCare Forum and thank you for sharing your story. Please know that you are not alone and there is a lot of advice and support available to you.
You have made a really positive step today just by reaching out for support. As I am sure you will find, the Forum is a welcoming and supportive space which allows you to connect with others who may also be experiencing similar issues to yourself.
You are also welcome to contact our helpline on 0808 8020 133 or via our live chat available from the website https://www.gamcare.org.uk/get-support/talk-to-us-now/ which are open 24/7 and where you can chat to one of our advisers who can look at all the support available to you.Â
We are here to support you through this Zoe.
Wishing you all the very best
Zoë
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