I have just found out that my son is gambling again. He had a serious problem a few years ago and had counselling to help him but now he is about to become a Dad in 4 weeks time. This is so hard for me as he has been brought up in a happy well balanced hard working family. I just don't know where to turn. He lies all the time about his money. He holds down a full time job but lies all the time to my face. Where can I turn for help to get him on the road to recovery? Please help me x
I am exactly like you-check my post out from earlier this week "At my wits end". This is my first time on this forum (or actually opening up to anyone) and I am also the mother of a gambling addict son. I am literally at my wits end with this and like you cannot comprehend how a boy from a stable loving hard working family has ended up like this! I keep thinking it must be our fault and sadly feel very ashamed about it all. Please check my post and all the helpful things that people have said....I already feel some comfort and hope and that I am not alone. I know that this is not much help as I am still at the same stage as you are but I hope that it helps you to know that you are not alone. It is awful and painful isnt it? We love them so much but feel so helpless.
Hi Karrielou69
Welcome to the forum. Coping with the consequences of problem gambling can be a very frustrating and deeply worrying time.
There is a lot of support on the forum, so please keep reading and posting when you can. You may also want to post on the Friends and Family section of the forum.
Have you considered attending a Gam-Anon meeting. Gam-Anon is a fellowship of men and women who are husbands, wives, parents or close friends who have been affected by the gambling problem. Dealing with the consequences of problem gambling can be an isolating experience and you may find it helpful to discuss your concerns with liked minded people who have been through similar problems. You can find more information on them here http://www.gam-anon.org
Gamcare can also arrange face to face counselling for you where you can discuss the impact of your son's gambling and how you can best support your son. We would encourage you to think about speaking to one of our Advisers on our Helpline 0808 8020 133 or on our Netline to explore your options.
Best wishes
Alex.
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