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Hi, I have just joined and have been gambling for over 10 years, during covid my gambling got to a new level, I won a lot of money on roulette and within a few weeks lost all of it and my savings, I told my family and they helped me financially. 
Recently the same thing has happened again, I have won and lost this morning, I finally stopped myself before I lost it all, but I am itching to chase my losses, I should be happy I still have money and not touched my own savings or working money. But in my head I should have more. I just needed to let it out 

I want to tell my wife but I am scared how she will react after the last time, she don’t deserve it 

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Posted : 24th April 2025 4:02 pm
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Hello! This forum and the chat room is a great support network! You have done the right thing stopping you do not want to loose your savings! I did that recently and it’s awful!! I would suggest whatsapping or calling the helpline so they can give you a free link to download Gamban which has helped me so much! If you haven’t already, I would also suggest joining gamstop! You got this and we are all here for you! Gamcare also offers 1-2-1 support to! Put all the bans in place and take each day as it comes! Your wife will be upset understandably but will also be proud you came to her! I would get the bans in place and call gam care to speak to someone and you can then decide about telling your wife! Just remember you haven’t touched savings etc… and you’re not going too! The winnings you had aren’t going to come back and can lead to you touching your savings etc and that will put you back to where you were - you’ve come so far from the sounds of it! You got this and keep posting and reading people’s stories and just remember your not in debt by the sounds of it and still have your money - a great place and don’t touch any of it because it will get you down the rabbit hole of loosing it all! Trust me, I did that! 

 
Posted : 24th April 2025 7:46 pm
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Hello! This forum and the chat room is a great support network! You have done the right thing stopping you do not want to loose your savings! I did that recently and it’s awful!! I would suggest whatsapping or calling the helpline so they can give you a free link to download Gamban which has helped me so much! If you haven’t already, I would also suggest joining gamstop! You got this and we are all here for you! Gamcare also offers 1-2-1 support to! Put all the bans in place and take each day as it comes! Your wife will be upset understandably but will also be proud you came to her! I would get the bans in place and call gam care to speak to someone and you can then decide about telling your wife! Just remember you haven’t touched savings etc… and you’re not going too! The winnings you had aren’t going to come back and can lead to you touching your savings etc and that will put you back to where you were - you’ve come so far from the sounds of it! You got this and keep posting and reading people’s stories and just remember your not in debt by the sounds of it and still have your money - a great place and don’t touch any of it because it will get you down the rabbit hole of loosing it all! Trust me, I did that! 

 
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