Exactly shiny, Go and grab it by the short and curlies because it will only pass you buy if you dont.
Im making my fun list in the next few days, sort of like a bucket list but not as depressing lol I.E i want to do them whilst im living not when im on my way out lol.
Who knows how you will feel about this site this afternoon or tomorrow one thing that is for sure if you change your mind and post more "Does it matter " ? Nope!!.... And it.. we ... will always be here.
Enjoy your day.
Blondie xxxxxxxxx
Heya Shiny pants,
Well, what can I say, apart from you are amaizing! Well done lately, just caught up on your diary (took me a while though...pheww.. Water please!)
Take a break, if you feel you need it then that means you are now in that last stage in the recouperation process I think. Away from all things gambling, so I take my hat off to you for been there in my good and bad times, (worst being, never making that damned a** frog jump)... Damnit!
Take care Shiny, se you around, post when you wanna post, be what you wanna be, feel free.... Way to be!
Pete.xxx
You spread your wings Shiny love, yet you're welcome back anytime. It's a big wide world out there and naturally once we're all repaired and recovered our natural response is to dip our toes into 'living' again, you go for it girl.
Take extra special care
Steve
No pressure Shiny..
You come and go as you like hun...the door swings both ways as they say... time to flee the nestd and start living
R and D xx
No pressure Shiny..
You come and go as you like hun...the door swings both ways as they say... time to flee the nestd and start living
R and D xx
Hi shiny
Sending u a big hug know exactly where ur comin from also been a lot of food for thought on here recently and myself not too sure what to make of it , anyhow just look after no 1 always here for u but without the pressure
MG pleased today as shouty lady is out ! Lol
Take care be thinkin of u
Castle2
Hi Shiny,
I have been thinking about ur post 2day, I felt the same not long ago and u wrote me a lovely post and it really touched me... I just wanted 2 say u have 2 do wot is rite 4 u, but I will miss u 🙁
We r all here if u need us 🙂
Stay strong xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Shiny Star
Charlotte is right...do what you need to do but know we are all here if you need us x
Jewels
hi shiny
i would miss you if you were to fly the nest but thats just me being selfish, you are to do what is best for yourself and those closest to you, so i am sending you a virtual hug and wish you all the best in whatever you decide
you know we are all here if you need us
take care
no gamblings the new gambling
carl
shiny the door is always open thank u 4 all ur support since i joined this forun as u know i was in a world of pain when i joined this forum and people like yourself posting to me gave me a big lift.
Il miss u and hope to catch up with u again sumday
God bless
Shiny.
Recovery for me mirrors our lives a great deal, when this addiction had it's hold we could not see this , the wood for the trees so to speak, then recovery, at first we use all the crutches we can lay our hands on, then we spread this good feeling to all we can, in doing this we come to terms?
Harmony!! We learn abstain and maintain, life in the middle lane.
Shiny your efforts from the start relentless, wise words, kind words and balanced, all the while your life outside, both of them demanding lol, you give your all, along side the reward your work professionally brings soon I hope, I among many here doubtlessly, would reward your efforts here with simply what you deserve.
Happiness and Harmony.
Thanks for all your efforts.they made a huge difference to me and my recovery
Duncs stepping forward never back
Hello Shiny,
I do hope my requests have not caused this. The way you describe how you feel is just like the way I feel. Finding it difficult to post, so my lifeline idea came into play. It was just that some of the contributors here, I couldn't bare to lose them. You were numero uno on that list Shiny. I will miss you wherever you go. I wish you all the luck and love in the world and I really really mean that. No wind ups or fooling tonight honey. You were my cybergirl. I will never forget what we had. In a few years time when I hope I have put the gambling days well and truly behind me I will tell people about the legendary Shiny. The diamond in the sky.
Goodnight and sleep tight. My thoughts are with you.
IB. xxxx
Yo,
Well just in from work , and well bit gob smacked at the responses I got . I truly can not thank you enough , every single last one of you .
Normally and this is being really honest , at home or at work I check this site 20 to 30 times a day ......
Today posted , went to work and this was my next log in .
I truly care bout you all, but it has become all encumbacing . And like I said this morning I feel that I am becoming a boring old f**t . Repeating the same thing over and over . I may be back next week with my tail between my legs , who knows ??
So from a distance I will be keeping a beady eye on you , and will still watch and support a friend in need .
I see soooooooo many doing sooooooo well lately , and that fills my heart with joy . So I have one thing left to say , before I leave to you all, and get some well needed zzzzzzzzzz
Keep on keeping on !
Shiny xxxxxxx
Hi Shiny...
Just read your last post on AN's diary....
I think to exchange your contact details you go into "Contact Us" in tiny print right at the top of the screen and then scroll down to "Complaints and feedback"...which is about the 4th header down.
"Forumadmin" is the 3rd one and when you press it it just pops up as a blank email for you to write on.
I'm happy being an outboard motor and I won't be joining the group because as a Codependant I would feel too responsible for peoples recoveries and worried I may say the wrong thing...lol ; )
But...I passed on my f/book details a while ago to a couple of folk who are no longer on the site who have got long term recovery and moved on aside of AN
Hope that helps...nighty night
R and D xx
Hi Shiny, Meet me on the site at 11.15 pm tuesday. I work late too until 11. I will make it simpler 4u. You have made a sad man very happy. xx I will wait until midnight! I turn into a pumpkin when the clock strikes its 12th bell. :0)
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