I am stronger than I thought!

hi charl

good to talk in chat the other night, sorry to hear your having hard time at the moment but like your gambling your being strong and fighting it keep up all the good work done so far and speak soon

carl

Hi Char,

Don't you dare worry about not posting to anyone when you feel a bit low. How many times have you helped all of us out!

Grief is a strange thing.....some people feel it straight away, others bottle it up. It's really good that you are feeling it now.....go with the flow....It will get better hun.

Thinking of you my friend.

Sue xx

Charl I hope you are ok im a bit worried. You did not stay at chat for very long and you really dont seem yourself. I hope you are keeping well and I mean it when I say if there is anything I can do to help just let me know. I am here for you if you need me. Dont stay away to long hun x

Charl hun i have been looking out for you today. I am pleased you are feeling a bit better. Allow yourself time to grieve it is natural. Look after yourself to. It may be that you are putting to much pressure on yourself. It is OK to let others support and help you. I know from getting to know you that you are independant but even the strongest people have bad days Charl. Look after you for now. Keep well Charl. If you need anything let me know I am happy to help after all the support you have given me. Take good care Charl

Morning Charlotte,

Just a quick message to say that I hope you are okay. Sending you virtual hugs!

Take care

Dave X

Thanks for your message charlotte, good to see your still posting. Continue to find your way through this, it might be through councelling it might not be, But untill you try it you wont know.

Just go with how your feeling as best you can, get plenty of support remember thats a sign of strength not weakness and be kind to yourself.

Blondie xxxx

Charl are you alright today just checking how you are feeling. I hope today is better for you and that you feel more peaceful. I am looking out for you as always and if you need or want anything. You know where I am . Take care Charl hun remember you are a true inspiration here and a kind genuine thoughtful person. Be proud of who you are people like you are hard to find. Onwards and upwards

hi charlotte i know you probably dont feel like talking at the moment but if you do im here to listen your doing a brillant job and all i would say is go with your instinct in your decisions

carl

Hey Miss C ((()))

I am hearing a lot of self awareness coming into your posts, which is a huge positive. It takes time to change our ways, and habits and to look after ourselves better - but you are aware of what needs to change, and that is more than half the battle.

Be gentle with yourself, remember you are still grieving and these feelings will take time to work through.

Take care gorgeous,

f x

ps Charl I excluded from one bookies today thought you would like to know

Hello Charlotte

I am so sorry I have not been around. You are such a strong person, keep going. I am sending you huge hugs and like the others have said you know where I am if you need me. You have loads of people looking out for you Charlotte that shows how much people care about you. I am thinking of you. Hugs and love . Take care

Luv Soph x

Meant to say Charlotte, I will try and come into "chat" in the next couple of days. Speak soon.

Luv Soph x

hey Hun...

No need to gve this journey up....besides ...I shall send Dotty out to find you and bring you back..lol

Hope you are feeling a bit more rested Charlotte..tiredness can affect us a lot more than we think ..makes me mentally weaker for sure...

Rest up hun and a few more days on Mums settee I think..all of us need looking after now and then and being a Mum is hard work ..you're never "off" ...

Keep chatting and keep posting when you can...don't wrry about posting ono my diary unless you want to of course...lol ...I am just glad to see your name appear on page one and I know your still there....

always unconditional Charlotte..and looking out for you xxx

Rach and search and rescue..Doo xx

Don't ever give up if you still want to try, Don't ever wipe your tears if you still want to cry. Don't ever settle for an answer if you still want to know why.