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(@gjgjgj)
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Hello!
 
Hope you're good!
 and I am from Albania. I ask for your help. I made a mistake risking destroying my family .(I am married with two children). I played in betting game and left all the savings to have, we will use these to buy bought a house by taking a loan. the amount is about $ 26k. I'm in a really bad condition I'm locked inside myself and I do not know what to do. this I made a mistake as I thought that by playing with these I could secure the money I would need to buy the house, but not only did I not secure it, but I also left my family savings. please help me as I am in a very serious condition, and I do not want to lose family.
, I think if i  can  get help me
Thank you if you understand me
Please  ????? im in critical situations 
(I made this writing as short and concise as possible)
 
Posted : 21st March 2022 11:18 am
(@tizzy1970)
Posts: 302
 

What kind of help are you looking for? 

You have to speak to your husband. He’s going to find out, that’s inevitable.

Tizzy. 

 
Posted : 21st March 2022 10:13 pm
(@gjgjgj)
Posts: 2
Topic starter
 

@tizzy1970  thanks for your  help,  

More people  and you  not  come  to understand  my situation. Is very difficult  to said  my wife's  for this ,this money  have collected with more sacrifices,  and i know  what she can do about if.

I need help  from anyone if has possibility as much  as possible. 

 

Thnx

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Posted : 22nd March 2022 7:24 am
Forum admin
(@forum-admin)
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Hi @Gjgjgj

Welcome to the GamCare Forum and for sharing your post.

I am sorry you are going through a really tough time at the moment, you are not alone in the way gambling can lead a person into signifcant debt or to make choices they may have otherwise not made. There is plenty of support available to you and you have made a really positive step today by posting your story.

Please feel free to contact the GamCare Helpline on 0808 8020 133 or Netline to explore the additional support available to you. We are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week if you would like to talk to one of the GamCare HelpLine advisers. We also have access to a translator services if this is something which you feel you would benefit from. 

Helen 

Forum Admin.

 
Posted : 22nd March 2022 10:52 am
(@andywilliams1187)
Posts: 42
 

@gjgjgj unfortunatley the money has gone, and nothing can change that. 

What you need to do is come clean to your family and explain the situation to them - it is hard to do but it will be much worse if they find out without you telling them. 

The forum here will support and advise you on the best way to do this. 

 
Posted : 22nd March 2022 10:55 am
(@gjgjgj)
Posts: 2
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@andywilliams1187  thanks  for good words 

If was so simple  i not write  in this  forum,  

Is so complicated ,is right  if you said money. Has gone, and  the problem  is it my family  leave me

Now  i want  someone to.help me ,i promise  if i came back  if you have or know someone  tell me.  This is the reason  if i write in this forum

???????

 
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