I love to read that you love yourself Stephen, something we must all learn to do!
I hope you have has a great day today x
Thank you for visiting my diary Murlo. I hope you are having a good weekend.
Hello Diary.
Saturday night in for me so just pottering about and taking it easy.
In my last post I was having a little tongue in cheek humour writing that I was grateful for being good looking, charming and modest. On a serious note though, I do believe that we need to treat ourselves with kindness and respect whilst being grateful for the good things we have in our life.
Everyone has made mistakes in the past and sometimes people may feel guilty, ashamed, vulnerable, frightened and lonely but that will not help anyone and will not solve anything.
I am trying to show myself some understanding and looking for positive solutions to things in my life that I am not happy with. In the past I have buried in my head in the sand or turned to gambling for an answer but that just left me feeling wretched on many occasions.
I have decided to make a recovery cake using the following ingredients:
A spoonful of courage
A tablespoon of integrity
A cup of common sense
A cup of understanding
A cup of smiles and laughter
A tablespoon of gratitude
A generous helping of generosity
A sprinkling of kindness and compassion
This cake has no calories and I can eat it anytime and anywhere.
I am going to eat your cake. Keep baking my good friend. I am going to write down the recipe on some pretty teddy bear paper and take it with me wherever I go. Not even lying!
Drama x
I have just had a slice and it tastes good but other people might be able to add to the ingredients and turn it into a really delicious cake.
Saturday night challenge: Who can come up with the best recipe x
Well it's been a good day for me. This afternoon I went to a Scrabble club which is held every couple of weeks in a cafe. I enjoyed that and went from there for a bit of fresh air on the pier. Exhilarating but a bit cold so I didn't stay too long.
Sunday is a funny kind of day. Some people are not keen but I have always liked it as a day to spend doing whatever I wanted and there is no end of wonderful things to do. Sport, walking, hobbies, DIY, leisurely strolls alone or with company.
A day is a day and they all look the same
A chance to have fun and make life a game
Twenty four hours for singing and dancing
Or cuddled up close for a bit of romancing
Sounds a good day stephen! I like sundays too.
Thank you Lisa.
I have just been on the Chatline which felt a bit surreal but in a nice way. I imagine it takes a while to get the hang of it.
I popped in Sainbury's earlier for a few odds and ends and was charged 20p for the plastic bag. I was really pleased because people might be less likely to dump them in the sea. It broke my heart the other day reading about a whale that was washed up on a beach with 200lbs of nylon rope/nets and plastic bags etc in its stomach.
Hi Stephen
Such a pleasant surprise to bump into you in the Group Chat tonight. It did make me chuckle picturing your no-doubt bewildered expression as message-after-message cascaded down the screen ... I felt the same during my 'first time' !
But like any such - ahem! - experience it gets better ... and it's an 'addiction' everyone would approve of!
A very good evening to you.
Mixer
20p is expensive but as you say probably for the best! I’ve always got bags in the boot of my car but forget to take them into the shop half of the time lol. I’ve never been on the group chat but sure you’ll settle into it eventually 😀
It was wonderful to meet you on the chat tonight. I can't believe how busy it was for your visit. It's not normally that busy. I was very grateful that you decided to stay and just visit. I enjoyed your company. It was like you were sat in an armchair in the corner by the fire watching the kids play.
It sounds daft but your company was very welcome.
Drama x
Thank you Mixer, Lisa and Drama for visiting my diary. I appreciate your support.
Hello Diary.
Have had a really good day.
This afternoon I treated an elderly lady friend (81) for lunch and a walk around town with a visit to an art gallery. It was a lot of fun. The lady in question was a work colleague and very good friend of my mother who passed away 20 years ago. I havn't seen her for a couple of years so it was good to catch up and we had a few laughs.
Tonight went Salsa dancing for the first time in a few months. It was excellent and a few friends were there who I havn't seen for a couple of years so that made the evening even better.
Although I havn't gambled my finances have taken a nosedive over the last 10 days so I need to slow down a bit. Still a few things to pay for before I set off to my sisters for a Christmas holiday a week next Thursday. I have got my train tickets.
Morning Stephen, it sounds as though you had a fantastic day yesterday. I used to love salsa dancing, must consider it again! I hope today brings you as much joy x
Thank you Murlo. Salsa dancing is great fun and I went again tonight at a different venue.
Also out for a few hours this afternoon meeting people, swapping cards and doing christmassy stuff in a cafe.
No urges to gamble and enjoying not been skint.
Hi Stephen
I just thought I’d drop by and say how happy I am that you remained strong and are enjoying all the little things in life. Sounds like you’ve had a fun week of activities.
Glad you got your train tickets ?. I hope you have a fabulous Christmas and thank you for dropping by my diary. Sorry for not posting to say thank you. I went a little AWOL for a week or two but my b**t is firmly back where it should be - this wonderful, supportive forum with wonderful people like you and Drama.
Bex x
Many thanks for posting on my diary Bex. I was sad to read of your setback but pleased that you are back amongst us and and are determined to reclaim your life.
Hello Diary ... 41 Days GF
Great day Wednesday with friends and acquaintances first at a tenants christmas get-together than joined some friends in a cafe and went to a rehearsal of an operatic singing group in the main art gallery and than last night went to see them perform/singing in the refurbished Victorian indoor market. All in all I had an absolutely brilliant day and it cost me very little.
I sometimes have thoughts of all the times I had to stay in or cancelled social engagements at the last minute because I had given all I had to the betting shop machines. Looking back now, none of it makes any sense to me.
But that is all behind me now and onward I will go
Stuffing my face at Christmas and playing out in the snow
Adventures in the year ahead will make me laugh out loud
Climbing the gamcare mountain and feeling really proud
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