So as a very brief update this post helped us to have our first serious conversation about gambling and its potential impact. It left her feeling very worried and certainly took the shine off what had to date been a white picket fence-esque future for us. I am both sad that the impact of my problems continues to shadow over my future but i'm relieved that the potential for this has been fully understood and digested by her. Thanks to everyone who contributed to the advice though, most appreciated.
Hi heropanda
It's okay for her to feel concerned. I think this will pass, given time. As you say, you have been totally upfront with her. I think she obviously appreciates that. She will be able to see by your progress and diligence in attacking the addiction that you are genuine.
Best wishes
A future built on real foundations instead of fantasy ones is always going to be stronger. Well done. I'm not sure anyone could do much more to protect their realtionship.
take the free holiday - get your revenge by not gambling a single dime - take the one person with you, you love to prove the point of being the real winner and not gambling but having a great holiday..........do everything together and have a romantic non gambling time.
good luck and don't have money on you to tempt fate for best measures.
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