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hi all finally took the plunge and joined this forum looking for advice and support to help me through this terrible time..

started gambling at a very young age just playing cards for pennies with family members by the age of 17 putting on lines, when reached 18 spiralled out of control the killer one (roulette) had me hooked spending all my wages that i had grafted hard for all month( gone within a few hours) i had seeked help before but never stuck at it giving up counselling feeling ashamed of myself and embarassed i suppose, recently my gambling has became worse again and im breaking promises to the people who are closest to me and the people i love the most. My family and girlfriend have been there for me through the hard times and supported me and all ive done is let them down and lie to them and its time i changed this around. im a young lad and gambling has messed my life up out working my back side off to through it away in a machine silly really. Gambling has effected my health alot making me feel anxious and depressed which i really shouldnt be having at my age. ive been bank rupt from a young age from putting myself in alot of trouble with pay day loans and overdrafts. i really just want to get help and sort my life out before i lose my family and my girlfriend and ive came here because i know this is the right place for me to become a better person.

 
Posted : 30th August 2016 4:55 pm
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Posted : 30th August 2016 5:41 pm
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thanks alot means alot. yes still time for me to change my ways, ive blocked all sites and excluded myself from all bookmakers, ive contacted through this think its a matter of being on the waiting list now which is a start. ive been to a gp and that side of it is getting helped. youre very right in what you have said im still young enough to change it all and make a better life of it. hopefully you stay strong and keep the faith too mate

 
Posted : 30th August 2016 5:56 pm
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Great post rosco
Just thought I would pop by and say welcome

 
Posted : 30th August 2016 6:38 pm
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thanks deano appreciate that

 
Posted : 30th August 2016 6:42 pm
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Hi rosco great post, don't feel ashamed and embarrassed a lot of people are going through the same and fighting similar struggles, talk to your girlfriend and family about how you are feeling don't keep it bottled up, they are there for you, over come this and have a great life with your girlfriend, you're a young boy don't let this take over your life any longer.

 
Posted : 30th August 2016 10:54 pm
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Hi all new to the site. Finally plucked up the courage to admit im an addict.

Im an idiot really always getting myself into trouble with Them dam Horses. get myself sorted then fall back into the trap now im in trouble again its a vicous circle but now I want to sort myself out this time im just sick of losing all the time throwing my hard earn money away to them crooks of bookies. The fun has stoped for me at the minute but with good help I hope I will be happy in the furture.

 
Posted : 31st August 2016 9:44 am
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Hi intro a have they're very understanding and stick by me through the hard times, that's it intro still can turn it around been doing well this week keeping busy. Harte make sure to exclude from the bookies and don't think like that try be positive one day at a time

 
Posted : 2nd September 2016 9:02 pm
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Welcome to the GamCare Forum

Well done for recognising the problem with your gambling, and for taking the steps to overcome it. You have acknowledged the impact it has had on your life financially, socially and emotionally and have been able to access the support of family, friends and this forum.

You mentioned that you have put blocks and self-exclusion in place, and have also spoken with your GP and are currently on the waiting list these are all very positive steps in the process of changing the problem gambling.

Just wanted to also let you know that you can also access the counselling services through our services, please feel free to contact one of the GamCare Advisors on 0808 8020 133 or on our Netline. The advisors can provide emotional support and information, as well as facilitate referrals to counselling appointment if you'd like to access the service too.

You may also want to use the recovery diary on our forums, this can be a helpful place to keep a diary of your recovery and get support from other forum members, as well as accessing our chatrooms. However continue to use the forum and posting your progress.

Take Care

Maria

 
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