Hi all,
It’s the first time I’ve said it out loud (or typed it) but i’m a gambling addict. Worse, I’ve used my own and others money to fund it. I won’t bore you with the details, but after a tough couple of years I turned to gambling and I have no idea how it got so out of control.Â
My sister finally pressed what was going on, it started yesterday and left me with the worst sick anxiety all day. I tried to ignore her but she wouldn’t leave me alone this time and I just couldn’t stop myself spilling my guts.Â
I do feel better for not being completely in the dark now, she’s understandably upset…and angry. I just wasn’t prepared for shame and blame. I’m finding it so hard. I know that’s really selfish of me. I love my sister and I know I’ve hurt her. How do I survive this shame? How do we move forward?Â
Do what you need to for yourself first .
If it's online gambling, gamban is incredible and you can set it up on all the devices in your house.
There are many forums on here that you can read though and alot of group chats that offer amazing advice and support.
If you have access to an addiction recovery program I would suggest you go to the group therapy and follow though with individual therapy.
I'm sure if you're looking for redemption from your sister, she would most likely want to see put the effort into yourself get the help you need and to build her trust back over time.
All the best !
Hi
There is help and support out there for both you and your sister. Speak to the advisors on here by clicking speak to someone and they will signpost or refer you, they are amazing.
Try and come on the 8pm chatrooms on here. Its text only so no cameras
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