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whatever you do save the relationship!! thats whats real here,relate counselling they will look at what you can afford to pay for appt,

you got each other please don't let these debts destroy you and your relationship. my year with my dear man was a fairytale and now all gone will he be ever back? i cant even help him. he says he come back, ask me to marry him. wants me to be proud of him.will that ever happen , belief and prayer,

I have 30k minus and still run a car on finance and pay credit cards minimum payments, Phoned today barclaycard gave me extra 30 days to support me no interest. do you have a home to pay?

horse racing fixed horses doped with oranges with drugs and corrupted sport, how much more do we want to take from these befreds and good old paddy and the great jockeys the great trainers and their hidden secrets lies.

please don't see debts with fear, look at them with strength.I was told today 1000 owe them to barclaycard, the advisor in india you managed your account maturly and shows your strength and you done well, a good caring company tescos as well.

please dont touch debenhams santander, if i get my finance straight or my situation improves ie another job their interest up to 39.9 percent they dont give you a chance,marbels aqua payday no no no

please watch gp ,communication rest. no rash decisions. think think before you do anything. it might be the worst decision of your life, make sure you are carefully with information sharing these finance companies banks they are not your friend, no pay day loan get over to a interest free card before that gets taken from you , i wasnt able to get an interest free card, it was impossiable.

please hold each other hand and know the day you meet was the best day of your life and i wish it was mine now to be in your position. im in your fiancee place and i understand what pushes a gambler stress; no control; self estemn, your a good person, we make mistakes and look at you today proud you told her, take your life back in your own hands,

what you can afford - agree direct with banks do not go on these plans your decision. just gives you no freedom ; always keep credit open, nothing ever permanent every second our lives our changing, needs and wants, gratitude for what you have. i lost my partner and don't know how he is doing.

I run a business small one with low earnings banks cant push you if you keeping up a agreed amount you can afford stand up for yourself here dont believe when they say they can't do anything and send you to stepschange, it is a unsecured debt they have to help you but survive. I am a partner of a gambler but to this day i suppported him with debt so why not support with gambling debt both a debt just different ways they became a debt,i supported his gambling he seen my money and took from me but i know deep in my heart what we had was real six months after he took and pushed me for money.

he felt guilt and shame and then tried to help me through this beast as he call it, a illness he would not wish on anyone. we were the best together life for one year i wouldn't change a single thing about it. i wish he was here today.

Heaven.x

please print this tell your wife about the loss of your child how it has affected you, my partner had to get help as to many mental health tablets from gp diazepam killer drugs. just masks the symptoms,do self estemn things together walking, a ball for charity a evening a church service ooh i wish i could do these again.

money debt i lived with it through divorce credit rating they just suck, 925 out of 999 good yep but no it just number i was over borrowed but of course i was paying everything so of course looks good, bankrupty my option now three years with a life but anything over 20,00 you earn after your living expenses goes to the bankrupty, no finance not a bad thing ,no credit rental agreements houses twelve months free any advice from someone i have a small business i can still keep .

Taken some positive steps today regarding debts and looking forward. Looked at the betway website to check if closed down after calling them a message came up contact us to reinstate. Wanted to but resisted it not that I got much money to put down! I keep telling myself put a ВЈ10 down what does it matter but I know not long after it will be ВЈ50 then £100. Keeping the faith and moving forward

Thanks for your comments j heaven

How are you doing now James?

Thought I would just check in and see ?