Aaaah wise and relivent words Stephen, thank you. I haven't had a chance to check in this week as wotk has been do hectic but I have realised I need a better work/life balance so will focus on this shortly. So true that your own behaviour and thoughts are important not the actions vo others. Take care and thanks as always for being your good self S x
Self Sufficient Stephen wrote:
Thank you friend for visiting my diary. To be likened to the Dalai Lama is indeed a great complement although I suspect you were just pulling my leg. Peace be with you anyway Markman. You come across as a noble seeker of the truth who has enormous potential but who sadly puts obstacles in his own way.
I am feeling rather good today and have no desire to gamble but reading the news earlier made me sad and angry because of all the injustice in the world. However, I cannot do anything to change the actions of others.
The Dalai Lama says: "Do not let the behaviour of others destroy your inner peace."
The Buddha phrased it a little differently but the message is very similar: "Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die."
The one thing I can change in the world is my own behaviour so I will focus on that. Staying gamble free is essential if I am to give meaning to my life.
As Jesus once said to his disciples: "Let's Rock n Roll." Or maybe that was Elvis, I'm not too sure! ...stephen
Love the poems and quotes you add. They really make me smile xx
Have a good Xmas Steven, you have helped a lot of people on this forum and I raise my hat to you. Gambling is a dish served never as we know what it tastes like, keep going.
Many thanks Sharon Super Star, Sensational Sandra, Super Smashed & the delightful Rainbow Chaser.
With gamcare friends like you alongside me I feel totally empowered.
Just heading down to my sisters to spend christmas with nephews and nieces. Wishing you all a super duper GF Christmas... stephen x
Thanks for your post Stephen! Gave me another nudge in the right direction. I love listening to songs. Puts me in a good mood!
Hi Stephen , just popping by to wish you a Merry Christmas and hope you have a good time down at your sisters, glad you are spending time with family ...... as has been said above you are a great help to many on here, myself included and i look forward hearing from you in the year ahead .... best wishes.
Thank you Change, Chartom and Sandra for your support and encouragement. I hope you are having a good Christmas.
I am enjoying visiting my sisters family. Having a lot of fun with nephews, niece and their children.
Whatever the stage everyone is in there recovery, I sincerely hope we can all have a gamble free 2019...stephen
For Gamcare Brothers & Sisters it is a wonderful opportunity to break free from the monster.
After making a conscious decision to stop gambling we are all pointing in the right direction so all we have to do is keep going forward.
We all have what it takes to do this....stephen x
That is really bad Lilamerer or whoever you are. Sick is a better word.
The profile page you have set up is being used for the sole purpose of promoting an online casino.
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Hi Stephen,
have deleted comment and blocked profile. Thank you for alerting us and sorry about the spam. We are hoping to have a better solution going forward.
Hope you are well and had a peaceful Christmas.
All the very best,
Eva
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Thank you Eva.
I will take this opportunity to wish you and your colleagues every happiness in 2019 and a big thankyou for all your hard work, support and encouragement over the past year...stephen
The end is drawing near of a Gamble Free December
Peace and calm at last though the pain I do remember
I turned my back on gambling so standing proud and tall
Here on the Gamcare Highway ready to Rock n Roll ... stephen
Here's to a gamble free 2019, reading through this thread has given me some peace as I start my journey. Again,
Thank you Lil for visiting my diary. They say every cloud has a silver lining and the silver lining for me is meeting good friends like yourself.
Many times we are advised to let go of the past and start a new life free from gambling. Well I believe now is the perfect time to do just that.
I sincerely hope we can all find peace, happiness and contentment in 2019. I send love and best wishes to all my fellow travellers, their families & friends and of course the admin crowd who give us all good advice, support and encouragement...stephen x
Hi Stephen, wishing you a happy, healthy and GF 2019! Can't thank you enough for your support and friendship...you're a diamond! Take care S x
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