Have to start afresh for my son max bear diary.

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Posted : 10th July 2014 6:03 pm
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Strength, resolve, love, family.....

The bear x

 
Posted : 10th July 2014 10:47 pm
duncan.mac
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Bear

fella all those things are on offer.

You have to want them more than you want the next punt, the next one is the most important one.

Why??

Because that might be the one where you gamble away all those things.

for me today there is not a stake big enough or odds to tempt me to risk losing.

It is not about the money.

I hope you make the right continued choice

Abstain and Maintain

Duncs stepping forward never back

 
Posted : 11th July 2014 7:48 am
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Thank you duncs you are right I can see how my attention to gambling takes it away from my family realised in last few days has to stop now I think I've woken up any way day 1 again...

The bear x

 
Posted : 11th July 2014 10:29 am
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Hi bear

Keep making the right choice. Family comes first and always will, do not sell your soul to the devil, the rewards recovery gifts us will never stop coming. I wish you well and keep posting, we are listening! !

Take care

Sandra x

 
Posted : 12th July 2014 2:48 pm
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Posted : 13th July 2014 7:01 am
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I've managed 2 days gambling out of 6 it's a start and in feeling better realising now though that have to get a period totally gamble free will get through weekend and report back massive test for me but I WILL do it you can wait and see ....

The bear x

 
Posted : 17th July 2014 4:14 pm
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You can do it bear 😉 do it for yourself and family mate. Av been here a few times myself but this is it this time for me.NO MORE. Goodluck mate

Scottyboy

 
Posted : 18th July 2014 1:15 am
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The bear

Fella it has been said many times here 'be kind to yourself'

My friend gift yourself that gamble free weekend,why??

Because you can!!!

Abstain and maintain

Duncs stepping forward never back

 
Posted : 18th July 2014 12:53 pm
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Struggling really struggling trying to get out of little hole making it bigger have to stop so decided to restart diary day 1 tomorrow 🙁

The bear x

 
Posted : 8th August 2014 6:32 pm
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Hi bear

Sorry to read you are struggling but you know that little hole will get bigger and bigger

You will never win your money back so why carry on losing more and more

Best wishes

Suzanne x

 
Posted : 8th August 2014 7:27 pm
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Bear its all in the head mate,i am a mile away from being solved of this horrible disease but what I will say is,deep in my head I wish to remain bet free until xmas then carry on from there.get it in your head mate its a total waste of time for gamblers like us because we can stop ever when we win. Goodluck mate get those days racking up 😉

Scottyboy

 
Posted : 8th August 2014 8:55 pm
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Thanks guys have had night out get home And try to study form for tomorrow but looked at my diary instead you have helped me a lot just for today yeah but thank you it's a big help x

The bear x

 
Posted : 9th August 2014 12:27 am
duncan.mac
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The bear

oh the old form guide!! I remember it well,funny because my own form guide should have said this

Great at picking the odd,acca,the odd big win,but will just be used to feed the compulsion.

This runner cannot win because he cannot stop!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

In black and white any bet how ever much knowledge I have,however great my odds of chance will mean the outcome will be financial gain it will only be a very temporary gift,oh and boy oh boy it will be paid back with great interest!!!

fella robby box wrote on these pages something profoundly true

GAMBLING IS A COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME.

fella don't waste your valuable time,spend it with that boy of yours

f**k he is worth more than any punt.

Keep gambling and you might lose him,it happens sadly all to often.

As always I stand by your side

Duncs stepping forward never back

 
Posted : 9th August 2014 7:36 am
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Hi Bear my old friend.

Great to see you back here but sadly i don't like that you have written "helped at least for today" it sounds like a part time effort to give up ? hope i am completely wrong. This is bloody hard i know but you can do it, hope that we can start this journey together. Your friend Dark Place /

 
Posted : 9th August 2014 7:59 am
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