Thanks Carl 🙂
Following on from my last post... My Gramps used 2 say 2 me...
Just do ur best and if ur best isn't good enough....Tough!
Ur best is all uv got!
That came in2 my thoughts earlier, made me smile 🙂
and how very true sounds like your gramps was a very wise person.
sorry i wrote on your wall earlier without reading the post before. all i can say is you seem to have a good fella now dont let the old one drag you back down, you have climbed so high and that is where you want to remain, be truthful with the new fella,he sounds like a good man. it is hard sometimes and you do get dragged in, its only human to try and help people in there hour of need but you made a good life for you and maddie now.
take care carl
Charl dont beat yourself up hun you cant change the person you are. You just used your human nature. I agree with carl tell your bloke the truth. Dont let others bring you down look after yourself charl. You have loads to manage and cope with but you are a strong person. Keep fighting. Onwards and upwards x
Yo,
Sometimes (a lot in my case ) the fear of doing something. The imagined outcome is far far greater than the reality .
I hate really hate that your ex treated you that way , hate the fact that he can then black mail you .
You are undoubtedly better off without him, but tell your bf because then your ex looses any hold he had over you .
Thinking bout you Hun , .......
Shiny xxxxxx
hi charlotte
i hope it went well with your boyfriend last night, and you manage to get some sleep and are feeling a little better today. im just dealing with giving up gambling and i find my guard goes down when im tired , so for you to be going through all this is a massive credit to the job you are doing. please stick with it.
take care
carl
Hi charlotte
Ur a wonderful caring person and don't ever change that u r who u r and we can all vouch how good that is , I am sure everything will work out ok and know u av dealt with much worse in the past at the end of the day u haven't done anything wrong u were just tryin to help someone who ultimately didn't deserve it
Take care be thinkin bout u
Castle2
hi Charlotte ..
I just only read your post from yesterday.
Sometimes we do things for the best intentions and then it backfires.
My gut says one thing but my level head says another...
Is there any way you could talk to your dad?
Keep posting Charlotte ..and keep strong....You have done nothing wrong and most of us given the circumstances would have tried to be sympathetic but sadly your ex is behaving out of control
R and D xx
Charl pleased you are alright. You are a star keep shining. I meant what I said at the chat I look up to you. Cheers for all your help tips and advice Charl. I appreciate it. Take good care hun x
hi Charlotte...
I'm really glad you are feeling better and getting some sleep and its great your bf knows now as you can be a united front and keep a healty distance from your ex.
Your current boyfriend sounds like a level headed chap.I was hoping you would tell him but didnt want to say that in case it inflamed the situation more.
a big sigh of relief...
Someone once told me something in meetings that i'd not considered before....in regards to your ex ..he also has his own higher power.
I think about that a lot these days especially when I want to help people who really are not good for me to be around but who are suffering.
I now hand them over to their higher power...and trust they will get the help they need.
Hope that makes sense hun...its hard to changes habits especially when we are people who care but we also have to protect ourselves.
glad to have you back Charlotte and keep talking ...cos it seems when you do.....only good things happen..; )
R and D xxx
Cheers for the support really appreciate it charlotte
cheers graeme
hi charlotte
really pleased you made decision to tell current boyfriend about the weekend, it sounds to me that you picked a gem there and he certainly picked a great big glittery glowing diamond in you!! now its out in the open you can deal with things together and become stronger together and you will keep going from strength to strength on this journey.
have good evening
gamble frees the way forward
carl
Thanks all 4 ur support 🙂
I had a good nites sleep last nite, it helped me feel more positive 2day 🙂
Had a busy day at work but my team r gr8 had a few laughs with some of them so I am feeling alot better atm!
Still gamble free 🙂
Hope everyone is ok x
Charl I hope you are alright and well. You are a fighter. You have not seemed your usual bubbly self at chat you seem really quiet. I am here if you need anything. Take good care hun x
hey Charl...
great to see your making friends in work an having a laugh...
Thanks for your post hun..having a bit of a chuckle myself these days...its good for the soul .lol
hugs
R and D xx
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