3 months gamble free and it’s life changing.

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 wafl
(@ir5f2s86ma)
Posts: 25
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Hi,

I thought I would give a positive update on my gambling situation.

I stopped gambling on 21st July 2025. This was the day I broke down in front f my wife and told her the situation I had put our family in with my debt and how sad I felt with my life, I told her about my dark thoughts which had been fuelled by gambling.

I also told my parents about my addiction.

Fast forward 3 months with no gambling.  My wife has access to all mine and out finances, we sit down and actively discuss our monthly budget something that I actually enjoying doing. 😁.

We are now looking to move house which 6 months ago woumd have terrified me as it would have uncovered my hidden debt, but now I’m looking forward to it.

I actively provide updates to my parents about my recovery rather than keeping them in the dark.

I’ve been attending counseling sessions which have helped me massively, I watch videos from breakeven on gambling and listen to podcasts.

my mental heath is in a much better place,im the fun loving husband and dad I should have been but wasn’t able to be while suffering with this addiction.

I just wanted people to know recovery is hard!  You need to fully commit with so much temptation out there but it’s possible.

You may feel there is no way out but I promise you there is. Speak to your partner, speak to GamCare don’t be ashamed it’s one of the bravest things you can do!!

I really do wish everyone strength and well being while on their journey to recovery and hope this update can give you the motivation needed. 

 
Posted : 23rd October 2025 2:03 pm
Tazman
(@tazman)
Posts: 764
 

Thats amazing mate 3 months gamble free and u are reaping the benefits i am on day 836 and my life is a million miles away it actually took me a while to let it go as i tried quitting sooner unfortunately i only knew of Ga and nothing else having a supportive family does help sadly nobody including my friends and family were able to understand this addiction yet in that sense i cannot thanx gamcare enough since joining this site and getting serious i have remained bet free i just needed a community which was opened minded and reading forums i understood i cannot take this addiction lightly because i was never judged and the people on here are positive i learnt it ok to be vulnerable relapses happen you have to keep trying if it wasent for the support on this website i wouldnt have got this far so yes it 100% possible to change life for the better👍

 
Posted : 23rd October 2025 4:52 pm
 wafl
(@ir5f2s86ma)
Posts: 25
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Thanks for the reply.

You are doing amazing keep up the hard work and stay focused.

I have only told my wife and parents and know one else.  Unsure why but maybe it’s the guilt and embarrassment. maybe one day I will open up more to my close friends.

so far so good on this long journey.

 

keep it up 💪

 
Posted : 24th October 2025 4:25 pm

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