Gambled my month's wages in a day

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(@dmjzi693ga)
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Hi, ive joined here today in the hope I can get some support after gambling my months wages away. Bills are not paid other than pay day loans. And I am so cross at myself! I want to stop so badly but then the moment im paid, im up gambling it away! 

It never stops.

I thought it was to win but I have one some big figures and I just put it all back again. 

Its oddly nice to see im not the only struggling with this awful battle 

 

 
Posted : 23rd August 2025 8:19 pm
(@xj0biw2zva)
Posts: 48
 

Hey

Yes ive been there. All we can do is learn from it. Coming here and writing about it, says to me your on the right path

X

 
Posted : 24th August 2025 12:05 am
(@dmjzi693ga)
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@xj0biw2zva thank you, i just feel so rubbish about it. And its everywhere, social media, the tele, the radio! Everything promotes gambling, its so difficult x

 
Posted : 24th August 2025 1:22 am
(@xj0biw2zva)
Posts: 48
 

I understand and hear you. It is hard. I personally think all advertisements should be banned. Everyone knows its there already. 

Post here when you get your urges, ive recently learnt a new technique called urge surfing..it does help. 

Good luck 

 
Posted : 24th August 2025 11:35 am
(@blmd1psr5f)
Posts: 14
 

Sorry to hear this mate im really struggling too. May I ask what you gamble on? My downfall is the football coupons then when im in shop FOBT machines . 

 
Posted : 24th August 2025 8:00 pm
(@zemcxa9u8t)
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@dmjzi693ga hello just reading ure post ure on the right track by virtue of the fact u have joined this "club " for want of a better description U won't feel so isolated...

 
Posted : 4th September 2025 11:36 am
(@celxbhjp2a)
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First, you need to accept that this is an illness and seek professional help. I've been an addict for 15 years and am three months into my recovery. I wish someone had told me this was an illness sooner.
 
Posted : 15th September 2025 2:21 am
(@k0hznuxgej)
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Hi mate, yes it’s an illness best thing I ever did was give all of my finances over to my wife, she only found out one day when I took her debit card to draw out £200, but secretly over the past 10 yrs I have been buying and selling items to use as gambling and she has never known it was as bad as it was. I get my private pension next year and am so worried but my biggest nemesis is online gambling and I just put a 5 year block on my online sites.

 
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