Hi I'm new to this site, I decided today to break the gambling cycle today. I started gambling repetitively in 2023. I had been left without money monthly and had to face bills using credit cards as back up. I signed up and joined the community for support. My employment contract ended on 30th June and reality has set in. My mind has been clouded with the money debt.Â
Hello,
Just so you know, you are not alone in this vicious circle. I personally lost the plot lately and just had a baby girl and 4 kids in total inbetween me and my partner. I am scared to speak with her because i know this will distroy her more than it did me. She trust me badly and she loves me more than i deserve. Although i feel helpless, i still think i can get out of this situation or any situation. In the end we are human beings and we make mistakes. I felt awful lately and i know exactly what you've been going through. Don't give up, find strength to cary on and seek support. Lots of support. There's a lott out there and i will get it to. I wish you all the best and keep us updated please.Â
Hello Bea,
Thank you for sharing how things have been for you.
Well done for reaching out – It takes a lot of strength being able to recognise and accept your challenges and to reach out to support services. You have taken a really positive step to reach out like this and access support for your gambling.
There is good support available to help you through your journey. You mention your mind has been clouded with money debt - We would like to signpost you to StepChange, a debt charity where you can get free and confidential advice for debt management if you think you would like extra support to help manage your debts - Â https://www.stepchange.org/
We are also here to listen and help you navigate through this and explore support options to help you with your next steps in your recovery - Please do contact us through to our helpline to speak to one of our advisers to talk through support options or if you want to access more of a 1 to 1 support through GamCare. Our helpline is open 24/7 and you can contact us via call on 0808 8020 133 or you can go through our website and chat to someone here: https://www.gamcare.org.uk/get-support/talk-to-us-now/
Best wishes,
Brielle
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