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(@dave101)
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Nice one, I am on day 30 myself in which I am proud of! Funny you should say that about 7 years ago I spent a lot of money on pretend money to play a gambling game/s to win more fake currency... it is deffo insane!

 
Posted : 2nd June 2021 5:30 am
Aum
 Aum
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Posted by: Secretaddict

Its officially day 40, 40 full days without a single gamble.

I'm keeping myself busy with other things and spending time with family.  I deleted all the games I had on my mobile phone at the start too specially the ones that give options to buy coins or boxes ect to progress to further levels. In the past when playing them I would rack up costs, I believe it gives the same fix ?  as it did playing for real money. Sounds so sad but just shows the extent of my problem I had. Spending real money on pretend money, who actually does that lol 

Well anyhow I feel sooo good I've reached 40 day gamble free. ???

My thoughts are with you Secret

As you battle for your life

The craziness of gambling

Caused you nowt but pain and strife

 

But now your on a mission

To rediscover you

And I feel sure dear friend

That you will see it through 

 

Aum ?

 

 
Posted : 2nd June 2021 10:44 am
Secret♡
(@secret-2)
Posts: 192
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Posted by: Aum
Posted by: Secretaddict

Its officially day 40, 40 full days without a single gamble.

I'm keeping myself busy with other things and spending time with family.  I deleted all the games I had on my mobile phone at the start too specially the ones that give options to buy coins or boxes ect to progress to further levels. In the past when playing them I would rack up costs, I believe it gives the same fix ?  as it did playing for real money. Sounds so sad but just shows the extent of my problem I had. Spending real money on pretend money, who actually does that lol 

Well anyhow I feel sooo good I've reached 40 day gamble free. ???

My thoughts are with you Secret

As you battle for your life

The craziness of gambling

Caused you nowt but pain and strife

 

But now your on a mission

To rediscover you

And I feel sure dear friend

That you will see it through 

 

Aum ?

 

Thank You Aum ???

 
Posted : 2nd June 2021 5:32 pm
Secret♡
(@secret-2)
Posts: 192
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Posted by: Dave101

Nice one, I am on day 30 myself in which I am proud of! Funny you should say that about 7 years ago I spent a lot of money on pretend money to play a gambling game/s to win more fake currency... it is deffo insane!

Crazy isn't it, spending real money for fake currency, I mean could you imagine how we would react if we was paid fake money yet happy to spend hard earned cash on it lol. Bizarre but I think you get the same fix from fake currently also.

Well done on your 30days that's amazing. We all deserve a big pat on the back for our achievement ? ? 

 
Posted : 2nd June 2021 5:34 pm
(@tizzy1970)
Posts: 302
 

Well done secret. I love your positivity! You are doing amazing! 
keep up the good work ✌️Xx

 
Posted : 6th June 2021 9:10 pm
joannieb
(@joannieb)
Posts: 69
 

Well done all!!!  So brilliant to read how well people are doing ? it really inspires me:)

Congratulations to everyone on here for great achievements.. Those days rack up before you know it!!! I can't believe I'm coming up to week 4! Yay ?

Best wishes to all ?

 
Posted : 7th June 2021 12:32 am
Secret♡
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Thank you both for visiting, appreciate the comments ? 

 

Day 46 today ??

Its amazing how we can quickly adapt once we have the mindset to stick with something. I could never of imagined after so many years gambling that I could actually stay away from the slots. The blocks are very good and the people on this forum are so kind. Makes it easier to know your not alone.

My nights now consist of making sure I am in the group chat, I really enjoy being in there. I love to offer advice, I do feel im a good support but just a shame until 46 days  ago i couldn't take my own advice but I'm doing that just now thankfully.

Usually each day I would normally be counting down to home time from work so I could gamble where now I wait patiently for 8pm to join the chat. It give purpose and motivation and also keeps my free time busy.

So thank you all for making this journey easier for me.

 
Posted : 7th June 2021 7:39 pm
(@tizzy1970)
Posts: 302
 

You’re doing the hard work Secret and deserve all the praise! Well done on another day xx

 
Posted : 7th June 2021 8:00 pm
(@rochg)
Posts: 401
 

Congratulations Secret on 50 days today! It really is something that because that period of time takes in when you might have some spare cash, and so proves that whatever strategies you are putting in place are paying off.

it is lovely too to see you so positive buzzing around the forums, it’s lovely to have you with us and part of this great community 🙂

Wishing you a lovely evening and if you’re having a celebratory drink then have one for me too 🙂

All the very best to you Secret 🙂

 
Posted : 10th June 2021 8:05 pm
Secret♡
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Posts: 192
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Posted by: RochG

Congratulations Secret on 50 days today! It really is something that because that period of time takes in when you might have some spare cash, and so proves that whatever strategies you are putting in place are paying off.

it is lovely too to see you so positive buzzing around the forums, it’s lovely to have you with us and part of this great community 🙂

Wishing you a lovely evening and if you’re having a celebratory drink then have one for me too 🙂

All the very best to you Secret 🙂

Aww thanks so much Roch, means alot to be welcomed to the group and for your kind message you have left on my diary ? 

May the weekend be a lovely one for you

 

 
Posted : 10th June 2021 9:24 pm
Aum
 Aum
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Posted by: Secretaddict
Posted by: RochG

Congratulations Secret on 50 days today! It really is something that because that period of time takes in when you might have some spare cash, and so proves that whatever strategies you are putting in place are paying off.

it is lovely too to see you so positive buzzing around the forums, it’s lovely to have you with us and part of this great community 🙂

Wishing you a lovely evening and if you’re having a celebratory drink then have one for me too 🙂

All the very best to you Secret 🙂

Aww thanks so much Roch, means alot to be welcomed to the group and for your kind message you have left on my diary ? 

May the weekend be a lovely one for you

 

Somebody let a secret out

But that is a wonderful thing

Fifty days gamble-free 

So let's all dance and sing

???

 

Aum ?

 

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Posted : 11th June 2021 1:26 pm
Secret♡
(@secret-2)
Posts: 192
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Posted by: Aum
Posted by: Secretaddict
Posted by: RochG

Congratulations Secret on 50 days today! It really is something that because that period of time takes in when you might have some spare cash, and so proves that whatever strategies you are putting in place are paying off.

it is lovely too to see you so positive buzzing around the forums, it’s lovely to have you with us and part of this great community 🙂

Wishing you a lovely evening and if you’re having a celebratory drink then have one for me too 🙂

All the very best to you Secret 🙂

Aww thanks so much Roch, means alot to be welcomed to the group and for your kind message you have left on my diary ? 

May the weekend be a lovely one for you

 

Somebody let a secret out

But that is a wonderful thing

Fifty days gamble-free 

So let's all dance and sing

???

 

Aum ?

 

Thanks so much Aum, really appreciate you stopping by my diary and leaving me a lovely poem ? 

 
Posted : 11th June 2021 3:08 pm
Secret♡
(@secret-2)
Posts: 192
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Wow wow wow. I officially made it to 50 days gf ?

If someone told me 50 days ago I would of been able to astain from gambling for this long I would of laughed my head off. NOT A CHANCE  I would of said. But here i am, its been the best decision I've made in my life. 12 long years of gambling... its been hell. Month after month of spending my wages and chasing my losses so I can pay bills. Telling lies to cover my tracks to hubby and family of why where skint and unable to do things. But no more, I'm free!

Next week will be my 3rd payday  since starting my journey. The 3rd payday where MY money will stay in MY bank and not the bank of the ceo of the sites I played. Sorry not sorry.

 
Posted : 11th June 2021 3:15 pm
 Loux
(@loux)
Posts: 848
 

Hi secret

Hope to see you on the new womens chatroom later 

Hope your having a nice day

So proud of you for reach the 50 day mark

Lou x

 
Posted : 12th June 2021 2:03 pm
Secret♡
(@secret-2)
Posts: 192
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57 gamble free days todays ?

I'm finding i don't even think about slots at all now. So mad how your life revolves around it and then just nothing.

Obviously my hubby doesn't know I chose to do this journey by myself  as he suffers with his own problems at the moment and I didn't want to add to that. He knew I was on the slots daily during my addiction. He thought I played free bonus spins ect.

Its coming to the end of the month where money is a bit tight as we  purchased a new bathroom with cash I had not spent gambling this month, he said to me the other night you need get on your slots and win us some money.... if only it worked like that we never win. But I said nooo I'm not doing that and told him I have closed all accounts now and don't want to gamble anymore.

 

 
Posted : 18th June 2021 7:16 pm
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