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Gosh, so sorry to hear it has all hit the fan again.

What a silly man. Hopefully he won't risk alienating his children any further by trying to force them all out.

It never ceases to amaze me how people forget that they were the cause of all the heartache when it comes to dividing up the assets. He should realise if you make your bed with rocks, you are not going to have a good nights sleep!

Thinking about you g-dog, take care of yourself,

f x

Hey there my friend.

Sorry to hear of your family troubles.

Trust in your Higher Power to give you the strength and the wisdom to know what to do. Be there for them, when they need you.

Sending positive thoughts, love and hugs your way.

God Bless

Charly/Sabine xx

Thanks all for the support. Oh he is a total plonker!!!! Had he had a bit of a fling that`s one thing, but to wreck all these years of marriage. Foolish man.

Poor P, my sis in law, feels that her life is over. That`s awful. Well little we can do. Think we might drive next week to see them. Tbh, if f, my bro in law, is anything like he was when all this kicked off first time, I do wonder about his thought processes.

We did visit and it was very unpleasant . He is behaving like a kid. Big money issues have to be sorted . I`m afraid that they both lived high on the hog due to his huge income so sis in law will have to work full time. Got to talk with the kids who I think are being brilliant.

Guess it will work its way through but there are a lot of tears to go.

Hi Graham,

Thanks for the message,i always read your diary when you post,and i'm aware of the great work you do with Safeharbor as well.Glad your still doing great on the gambling front,but sorry to see that your Sister in Law is having round 2 of all the marital trouble,stressful for you and your wife as well.....,life is never a stroll in the park is it Graham.

Seano.

Yes it is all a but yuck at the mo. What with the maritals, I also have a couple of other negative things going on so a big ball of stress here. Still on the up side I am not gambling.

Hi Graham (cyber pops)

Thanks for posting on my diary, sorry to read that things arent going too well at the moment (read your post on Daves diary) realy geuinely hope things improve for you.

You have been so vital in my recovery, genuine and caring, on safe harbor i was balling my eyes out.....seriously im so grateful to you, and others obviously, but you have related and understood me from my very early days on this forum.

RESPECT to you my friend!

Your always giving support and guidance even when things are tough for you and that just shows what a great bloke you are!

And as for your own recovery you are an inspiration to all of us, you, freda and DT all make me sob, like i am nearly now...

Be thinking of you... ands

Your the no1 gamcare man!

Good to talk to you in chat tonight Graham.

Hope the stresses sort themselves out quick for you. Keep up the good work - you're doing fantastic!

Claire x

Hi Graham

Just to thankyou for all the help and support over the last 12 months....hope you are well, take care...ands

Hi Graham, spoke to you briefly in chat earlier tonight, said you didnt think we had spoken, but on reading through your diary i did post in it in one of my earlier brief flings with the gamcare forum.

Sadly in the past i have dropped in here after a big loss for a few days, then soonfallen back into my old ways.

Hopefully this time will be different.

Congratulations on your recovery so far, good to see such a success story in spite of all the stresses you have been under.

Hope things pick up soon and you dont have too much trouble with the inlaws.

Take care

Ash

Hi G-dog,

Sorry to hear things are stressy just now. Keep doing the things that work for you, in keeping you level and sane. I know that keeping busy work-wise is one of yours, but just work with whats possible at this point.

You are a great chap, you are doing your best, and let as much 'go' as you can.

Hugs from me.

Take care,

f x

Hi Graham

Just wanted to say hi, hope you are ok mate!

Your an inspiration...take care, you are often in my thoughts ands

Hi Graham

Good to talk to you in chat. Very wise words. Wishing you well

Lili

Graham

Thanks for umpteenth time for support and advice in chat. You continue to set an example on here for others to follow.

Keep up the good work mate.

Graham

Was in chat tonight. If I made a "joke" which offended you. Then I apologise. It was not intended that way.

RayG