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@2xnzbc8m31 

Good evening 

I have been reading your posts and all the replies.

My story is not even near yours but well done for putting yourself and the two kids first. You have not given too much details but it seems that you stayed too long.

We have one life. We can give one chance and understand where it is coming from however someone doing something hurtful in a repetitive pattern is absolutely unacceptable. Also money is important as it brings stability. It is an awful illness this gambling addiction. Mood swings related to gambling (I remember those and this is how I guessed something was wrong) is the most horrible thing to deal with.

Spoil yourself now . 

Candy xxx

 
Posted : 5th January 2026 6:01 pm
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@g3y6a5jbds Thankyou!

 
Posted : 10th January 2026 12:24 am
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@lw9tnjzs3h thankyou so much!

 
Posted : 10th January 2026 12:25 am
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@bwhgl0d527 there is still time for you to change this. You haven’t been cursed. I don’t agree with that, I think everyone is capable of change you just have to want to change, more than taking your next breath. Get the help you need before recovery and during, Id like to thank you for your message it means alot as I felt somewhat guilty today. Slightly. And your msg reminded me of the severity of this addiction. If it was a curse you could see a preist if religious or a reiki healer or a spiritual teacher. Your brains convinced you that you’re not in control, it needs reprogramming through numerous forms of therapy. Its not easy, nobody said it was but you still have all the power to fight this. Don’t give up on yourself. All the best

 
Posted : 10th January 2026 12:44 am
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@lw9tnjzs3h Thankyou Candy

 
Posted : 10th January 2026 12:47 am
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@bwhgl0d527 Good evening

 

As previous mentioned in some of my replies for different posts and from the research I made,  gambling addiction (and any addiction) seem to come from trauma.

Not curse. So as long as the trauma is still there the addiction will remain. 

Like violence: It does not appear ‘like that’.

 

Take care. Candy xxx

 
Posted : 10th January 2026 8:28 pm
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