Hi all, I have been on this forum on and off for years, been away for a while, of course relapsed badly.
I'm 38 male. And 20 year history of gambling, severely in debt. I'm pretty alone without a friend in the world.
I was wondering if anybody would he happy to join me via whatsapp chat or something, to help each other out. I need someone to release too, someone who can understand and be there for me and vice versa because this is lifelong and forever.
Private message if you can help.
Thanks jbug
Hi JuneBug,
You have come to the right place, you will find many people who have been/are going through what you are.
There is a chatroom on this which gives you the chance to speak to other gamblers/families of gamblers. It is not open 24 hours but the details/times are all found here - https://www.gamcare.org.uk/forum/chatroom-opening-hours
As well as that you can call Gamcare or speak to them using the Netline that is on this site.... you can find that up at the top of the page.
Even better than that find you nearest GA meeting and get yourself along. There you will find a room full of people who will all understand what you have been through.
Damo
Thanks, I'm currently abroad and back in the UK in August so have some time to battle on.
I'd be happy to meet some new friends here on the forum, it's a source of comfort for me.
If anyone would like to PM too that would be great. I feel I have this deep crazy story that I need to let out, I hope someone is out there like enough to anonymously listen. And likewise, I'd listen and support.
Hi mate,
I would pm but don't know how to on here can always talk through watsapp or something like that if you'd like. Yes you are right it definitely is a lifelong thing we have with us and continue to do so. It is a awful, horrible addiction to have and we all need the help and support from friends/family but also just as importantly from like minded people going through similar things and behaviours. 🙂
Thanks Stollers yes it seems there's no way to private message. Maybe you can drop me an email and we can exchange whatsapp info or something thereafter. I feel an instant messenger is better than this forum (as much as I appreciate it) to get some one to one debriefing
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