Hi all,
just a quick show of hands, metaphorically.
i am a recovering gambler and been clean for a week or so now.
the question I have is, I have ruined one relationship wih my gambling and I have a new girlfriend now who has not been affected by my gambling ways
do I tell her skmerhingn that doesn't affect her nor will it?
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I think I would tell her. Only because it is part of you and starting off honestly means u won't b worrying she will find out.
Also if Ur In debt she can understand why u don't have the finances to do as much as she would like.
It sounds like u having a new start and good for u.
Start your life again with honesty and the dignity u deserve x
Personally, I would have to tell her. I think your asking the question because you know that if the situations were reversed you would think that you deserve to know. I know I would be really peeved if I wasn't told.
Honesty is always a good basis for a relationship. Secrets have a habit of biting you on the b*m at a later date.
Best wishes
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