haha! don't let it go to your head! 🙂 easy does it!
You may be right about the relationship, honey. His anger levels are pretty toxic. He's cancelled on me today because he's fed up because his son has an ear infection...? I don't even know what he means by that...
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hiya 🙂
Finding joy in the simple things, eh? Brilliant.
His son is 16, almost 17. He only stays with him 3 nights a week, so, no, not likely to be exhausted by that. He's angry with his son, for some reason. It doesn't take much. He has crazy OTT rules for his son. Most people with teenagers say "don't slam doors or play your music loud at night" His 16 year old has to ask if he can have a bath or shower, at night. He has to ask permission! Why? Because it would mean he was walking around the house and this might disturb his Dad! I mean, goodness knows what happens if the poor boy wants to go to the toilet! He is starting to look like a real control freak.
Anyway, sorry for rant on your diary!
Hope you have a peaceful evening
f x
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Awww, yeah, you pay loads of interest in the first couple of years of your mortgage. It starts evening out a bit after that 🙂
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Sounds a bit unfair of him to guilt you for not going home for longer. I'd feel a bit angry about that.
See, sometimes people we love are a bit unfair or unreasonable. We get to love them and feel valid anger toward them, too. Doesn't matter if they mean to, or not. We can have our feelings anyway. AND they are always valid.
My mother wouldn't be happy unless I catered to her every whim and desire. I decided that since I don't even like her, I might as well save wasting my energy that wouldn't be enough anyway. Sometimes, to make someone else happy it comes at the expense of our own happiness. That's not a price I'm willing to pay.
You're doing a lot for your parents. I'm sorry they can't see that.
You are enough.
f x
You just keep using your diary to unload those thoughts and frustrations, I do the same, I have nobody to talk to so I use my diary to say what is going through my head. We are all fighters and no doubt you will have a better day today.
Take care Wilsy
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Your doing great S&B and always find time to share your wisdom and love with others on the diaries.
Sorry you and lil girl are a little poorly. Fresh air and exercise is the best cure for that.
Have a nice day little angel.
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