Hi odaat. He pays more of he is working as he drives for a living. So he doesn't have fees. So if he can cover our bills for this week and week after then my wage covers food. I've squirrel ed for uniforms and shoes so hopefully be cheap park an bike days. Exercise and boardgames. Kids don't need alot but I may escape a few times.
I've no idea what to think. He seems to be trying but I still want to hide his wages from this week. Because we've now received another bill.. not due but pressure mounts. - not connected to gambling.
Lost.
Well we had a week of. I didn't think things would come back together I truly thought that's the end of 8 years!
We've spoken alot. I've admitted I was frightened to ask alot of questions but am done with cowering back and not asking or saying what needs to be.
I have no backed down and I've not given in, because that got us nowhere at all..
In one of our talks I asked about the safe keys, because I hadn't wanted to bring it but I did! (Proud of myself).. he asked if I could move the keys to a better location out of the house I.e my parents house. His choice. I agreed to, and tried not to be patronising but praising him for his honesty and truthfulness. He clearly is acknowledging a certain degree of fault/addiction.
How long it lasts ? I do not know. If he will continue to talk? I do not know.
Our finances are secure. I am in control of my future. If he wants to be part he needs to buckle down and talk.
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